Toxic Relationships and Anxiety

Life is ten percent what you experience and ninety percent how you respond to it. – Dorothy M. Neddermeyer

Does your soul need a pep-talk? Is your anxiety creating a narrative that leaves you feeling powerless? There’s nothing wrong with you. Seriously.

Today I’m going to share some mindset tips about how to stop shaming yourself for living with anxiety, going from loathing to loving change in your life, how to help cleanse your energy field around you from toxic relationships, and live by your NEW Golden Rule so you’re back into alignment with the Universe to ManiFAST: Manifest Faster, everything you desire for your life and your career.

Because there’s no reason to feel guilt around making empowering choices for yourself…are you ready to give yourself permission to be happy and transform your relationships with anxiety and toxic people? Then take a listen…


Want to manifest faster? Grab the best-selling books, “Don’t Feel Stuck!” and “Don’t Feel Stuck in Love!”, available via Audible, Kindle, and paperback!

XOXO Jaclyn

Instagram: @themanifestit

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Bruce Springsteen’s interview on mental health with Esquire Magazine

I Made This For You: Daily Affirmations

I Made This For You: Daily Affirmations

daily affirmations

Hey, Beautiful Soul!

I made this for you, it took about 8 hours to make it, but I want you to have it!

It’s Your Daily Affirmation

Screenshot your daily affirmation. Forward this message, or tag a friend on Instagram who needs theirs, too. And come back to it tomorrow for another one!

Explore WHY your daily affirmation IS TRUE and comment below on Instagram, or reply to this message and let me know.

Let’s celebrate together! Have a great week!

XOXO Jaclyn

The Surprising Lesson: Do You Know This?

The Surprising Lesson: Do You Know This?

Pushing Through The Fear

You know how sometimes we have bad bosses at work and we think to ourselves, “I’d never do that” or “I will never do that if/when I become a supervisor?”

I did some digging around online yesterday with regards to my previous message about dealing with negative feedback and feeling vulnerable as you grow. Needless to say, I learned A LOT about multi-level marketing (MLM) and how public figures grow their income and fame this way.

I recently started a new Instagram account, I want it to be a more inclusive “we” account rather than a hierarchal pyramid of me having a lot of followers over time and me not following as many in return (you know, the typical “influencer” triangle pedigree setup).

Obviously, this means my exposure to others on the platform will not be the same as Instagram’s “popularity” algorithm set-up. However, I do believe it’s important to support each other as best as we can through similar interests and messages we want to express to the world.

I’m forging my own way, my own path. I’ve always marched to the beat of a different drum.

I’ve known for many years almost everything in the world is based upon a hierarchal pyramid with regards to operations:

in business
in the education system
in the government system
and even in clubs and organizations

This is not necessarily a bad thing when executed fairly. Human beings can become power-hungry, though, and this is where I don’t support exploitation in order to “make a buck” or become famous.

Yesterday I did my digging around and realized some people, not everyone, climb higher and higher on their ladder to fame and riches because of networking USING the MLM system (the hierarchal triangle). This doesn’t mean this is the case for every famous person or rich person, no. And it’s not necessarily a bad thing, when not taking advantage of others.

Pushing Through The Fear (The Takeaway & Lesson I Learned)

While some may rise to fame and riches using exploitations, others do not (me). Hell, I’m the “Norma Rae” when I see others being taken advantage of, it’s innate for me (regardless of the “system”). The New York Times best-selling author couple here in Texas I was referring to in my other message use the MLM set-up in order to “Rise” to where they are at this moment (pun intended). But, it looks like they got power-hungry.

The reason their clients and book-readers are giving them negative feedback now is that over the past 3 years they have not been completely transparent and acting with integrity about their own marriage towards their customers while charging them $1700 per person for 2-day workshops counseling their clients about how to have a great marriage. And after building their entire business model around this very subject, they out-of-the-blue announce they are divorcing. No mentions of a struggling marriage before that moment.

I found this to be a good lesson to learn for me, and for anyone else who owns a business: it’s a good idea to always be transparent, honest, and act with integrity. I had that “I’m not going to do that” moment yesterday, even though they are not my bosses.

Money and fame are not the solutions to loving yourself and having a happy life.

It’s a byproduct. And while this INFJ personality doesn’t like to play games or “beat the system”, it was a good learning experience for me to observe what is going on here and how this couple is reacting to some of the choices they have made. Well, they are ignoring how they “betrayed” and “duped” their customers and book readers (the public’s words, not mine).

Thank gosh I listened to my intuition with them from 2018, for my soul’s compass did not steer me wrong.

I pushed through my fears of negative feedback within my own work yesterday, reminding myself that just because someone may not like vanilla ice cream (me) doesn’t mean that the ice cream doesn’t taste good. “Different strokes for different folks.”

My ways and methods of running Manifest It! may not create multi-million dollar MLM deals or hypnotize the masses for a “quick fix.” I’m going to continue being me, and continue teaching practical and logical ways of using The Law of Attraction for you all who want to know how to do this for your long-term goals and dreams in your life, and for your long-term happiness and success.

I surrender to the Universe and I am open to receiving any and all blessings coming my way. Are you, too, for yourself and for your life? I hope so! I believe in you, never give up. Keep going.

You’ve got this! Have a great week, talk to you soon!

XOXO Jaclyn

You Dont Succeed Unless You Try
Disclosure: Feeling Vulnerable Through Growth

Disclosure: Feeling Vulnerable Through Growth


This morning I came across a sponsored (advertisement) post on Instagram from a New York Times best-selling author. I wondered why I was still being “targeted” by their ad campaigns because I’m not their ideal book-reader demographic. They have a massive best-selling book that was published in (I think) 2018. They live in Texas (like me), but I think they are more religious than spiritual. ? Not sure.

Regardless, I don’t follow them on social media, I’ve never bought their book, and I think I watched 2 videos of this person with their spouse in 2018 (which led me to realize I’m not their ideal demographic).

This morning, curiosity killed the cat, as they say…

I opened their Instagram profile and “snooped” through the comments section of their posts. I had no idea they were doing workshops centering around having a good marriage, etc. And I just learned this morning that a couple of months ago their marriage has fallen apart.

This person, who is now a millionaire and a New York Times best-selling author (something I dream of with my own books!), has quite a bit of negative backlash from book-readers and customers stating they feel like this person is a “scam” and “scammer”.

My “alert!” antenna went up and my brain immediately conjured my subconscious fears that have been at play for a few months now.

Facing Public’s Opinions of You and of Your Work

I’m scared. To be honest, I’ve been feeling scared for a few months now. Maybe it’s partly due to COVID-19, not sure. I know it’s due to the expectations I put upon myself to “do better”, 4 business hiccups I’ve encountered this year in 2020, and the fear of negative public response of my work as I keep going and growing.

It’s so easy to want to “shrink” back into my shell, especially because I AM an introvert.

During my ManiFASTing journaling this morning I asked myself to weigh each answer with a percentage, 0% being the lowest of importance and 100% being the highest of importance and explains WHY, to the following questions. Here is what I came up with:

Does shrinking back into my “shell” make me feel good about my soul’s purpose-work (what gets me out of bed each day that fills me with passion)?

5% yes and 95% no. It’s safe and comfy, overall feeling safe feels boring and stagnant.

Does shrinking back into my “shell” make me feel better about my self-growth?

0% yes, 100% no. I want to continue growing because I love who I have become so far. It’s not easy 100% of the time, but the growth is what got me where I am today and I feel good about it.

Does shrinking back into my “shell” make me feel fulfilled as a human being, as a soul?

100% no, 0% yes. I want to feel fulfilled in everything I do and accomplish. I want my legacy when I leave this world to be that I helped others fulfill their own dreams and desires in everything they do and accomplish in their lives, too.


Why am I doing all this, to begin with?…

Is it seriously to “win” the approval of others?

30% yes and 70% no. I’m human, I want to be liked and I want positive feedback just like anyone else. At the end of the day, does it really matter what they think dictates my own happiness and fulfillment? No. It matters what I think about myself and for my own life. Not everyone is going to want “my flavor of ice cream”, but that doesn’t mean it’s not any good at all.

Is it for the money?

15% yes, 85% no. Money is a tool, it is not an outcome to happiness or success.

Is it to explore and find out what I’m capable of in the world?

100% yes, 0% no. I had no idea AT ALL that I could accomplish what I have so far, and if I didn’t explore it and allow for changes in my life, all my blessings and events wouldn’t have happened for me. I’m so grateful!

Is it to help others find out what they are capable of in the world?

90% yes, 10% no. I can’t help people who don’t truly want to allow for changes in their lives. You get positive changes when you allow for positive changes to happen. I cannot force it upon anyone, I’m here to help those who truly want to receive their dreams and desires.

Feel the Fear and Do It, Anyway

I read back to myself what I typed out and I’m reminded of a few quotes by Eleanor Roosevelt:

No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.

Do one thing every day that scares you.

Do what you feel in your heart to be right – for you’ll be criticized anyway.


I encourage you to ask yourself the same questions about your dreams and aspirations for your career, business, and for your life, and find out what YOU decide.

You are the keeper of your own legacy: others may tell you your supposed story, but you get to decide how your story ends.


– XOXO Jaclyn (much love to you)


Using Financial Affirmations: Visualizing into Reality

Money is only a tool. It will take you wherever you wish, but it will not replace you as the driver. – Ayn Rand

In today’s episode, I interview Sebastian Soul, creator of Affirmation to Manifestation podcast, about his great spiritual awakening journey: going from “spirituality is weird” to “I don’t believe in it, but I’ll give it a shot.”

The results? His “hard data” experiment with manifesting money led to quick money manifestations…and he wants to share some of his money-magnet tips with you right now.

Key Topics of Discussion:

  • Breaking up with your victim mentality: how to change your life despite living with depression and anxiety; overcoming serious health obstacles that may pull you back into your former self; and doing a 180 in life by discovering the Law of Attraction, especially with learning how to boost your self-esteem and manifest more money
  • Defining spirituality and how it gets misunderstood by so many people as “hocus pocus” stuff (but you get to choose how you want to believe it)
  • Using the Law of Attraction as a practical toolbox for manifesting money quickly: our experiments and how we manifest a lot of money quickly
  • Changing your beliefs about money, thus your physical reality of receiving money by using positive affirmations and financial affirmations through visualizing “confirmations”

For more information, please go to:

Affirmation to Manifestation Podcast

Sebastian’s website


Want to manifest faster? Grab the best-selling books, “Don’t Feel Stuck!” and “Don’t Feel Stuck in Love!”, available via Audible, Kindle, and paperback!

XOXO Jaclyn

Instagram: @themanifestit

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This podcast interview was recorded using Zoom.