After someone left a very cryptic 1-star Amazon review either about (or not about) my beloved creation, Don’t Feel Stuck!, I did some self-reflecting today. Let me be frank and transparent for a few minutes:
A lot of people do like me because I’m kind, I’m positive, I’m loyal, I’m driven, and I’m honest.
BUUTTTTT…there are a lot of souls (mainly women) who do NOT like me because I AM honest, I’m blunt, I don’t give a shit about image, I don’t follow the masses, I’m intelligent, and I’m super independent. For whatever reason, some people find me intimidating because I go against the grain of society and I see right through bullshit. As an INFJ on the Meyers-Briggs chart, I see right into your SOUL.
Sure, I like to follow laws, rules, and policies; however, I do not DEFINE myself nor my life by them. I am the Norma Rae and the Gloria Steinem in everything I do with my life. If something doesn’t seem fair, equal, or justified, I sure as hell speak my opinionated mind about it! And I don’t give a flying fuck who you are or what your “status” is in this world. To me, we are ALL equal of the same elements of red blood.
Who I Am Now vs. Who I Used to Be
I am fearless, though I did not used to be this way while growing up. I used to be terrified of people, of the world.
I am an original in my thinking, though I used to think it was what was “wrong” with me while growing up and TRYING to fit into society.
I am an introvert, though I used to believe this was going to limit me in creating success in my life.
I am opinionated and not afraid to speak up to protect myself and my loved ones. Though this used to, and sometimes still does, land me in hot water. I used to think it was “wrong” to speak up in order to protect myself and my loved ones because society tries to instill fear as a means of control.
I am all kinds of characteristics and traits that will either have you finding me to be a breath of fresh air in a superficial world; or, you will be repulsed by me because I don’t like to sugar-coat anything in life.
Regardless, it doesn’t matter what anyone thinks of me. It doesn’t matter what YOU think of me. And it doesn’t matter what I think of YOU either.
What Ultimately Matters for Yourself
What matters is how you choose to love yourself. What matters is how you choose to live your life. What matters is how YOU choose to think, to feel, to believe, and what you decide to do while you are on this planet in your current physical form.
Why do you think you HAVE to live a certain way because others are doing this? Why do you feel you HAVE to push down feelings of true happiness because others try to make you feel guilty for living your life the way you WANT to live your life (and they aren’t)?
And really, WHY are you doing the things you are doing in your life? Is it because it’s safer this way? Comfortable? Reliable? Familiar? Depressing? Hopeless? Tiring? Daunting? Mundane? Fun? Joyful? Exciting? In alignment with ease and flow? Challenging? I could go on asking the “why” …
What matters is your own happiness. What matters is your own fulfillment. What matters is your soul’s journey, not anyone else’s. What matters is what YOU choose while at the fork on the road each day: do you tell your fears to fuck off and you go forth towards your manifestations to speed the process up? Or, do you succumb to your fears, and therefore stifle your manifestations further into the horizon?
What Do You Choose Now?
Either way, you create your story that you deem to be “reality”. Either way, you hold the keys to your life. Either way, you get to choose and decide what you want to focus on each day. Everything is a choice. Do you quickly react with full emotion? Or, do you stop and think it through before you decide to respond that is in the best way for your soul’s highest happiness?
Your choices either move you CLOSER to your manifestations and it speeds up the process; or, they push you farther away from them. Ultimately, it doesn’t matter what I or anyone else thinks…it only matters what YOU think, FOR yourself, FOR your life, FOR your happiness.
And blur the rest.
Blur your past disappointments, they are no longer in your present and future.
Blur the people who hurt you and left you feeling completely broken-hearted while down on your knees crying with confusion.
Blur the “no’s”, blur the critics…they are just insecure about themselves anyway.
And focus on what truly matters to you, FOR your happiness and your self-love.
Focus on what makes you feel in ease and in flow as a unique gift of Mother Nature.
Focus on what you ARE manifesting and calling into your physical realm because what you focus on expands.
Focus on your goals, your dreams, and your desires…and blur the opinions that others try to force upon you in hopes that they instill fear into your OWN soul (because let’s be honest: you are worth SO MUCH MORE than this).
It does not matter one bit what anyone thinks of you. It only matters what YOU think of yourself, what YOU plan and take inspired action towards during your time on this planet. It only matters what your OWN opinions are of YOUR self and YOUR life.
But Are Our “Flaws” REALLY Flaws Anyway?
We all have “flaws”, but are they really flaws? Maybe they are our strengths and we just don’t know how to embrace them full steam ahead. So many self-project anyway. They want to tell you who you are because deep down, underneath their own fears, they wish they could be like you. They wish they could be as strong and unique as you. They wish they could live in full freedom like you do. They wish they could unleash their own soul and live by their soul’s highest and happiest purpose in our Universe- like you do.
So, whether you find me to be a sweet, rare stardust of cosmic mystery; or, a passionate, remote and hard-to-read serious wolf…I don’t care! And neither should you of what anyone thinks about you.
Always stay true to yourself and keep going, keep moving TOWARDS your manifestations. The Universe IS working behind the scenes to rearrange everything on your path FOR your life’s goals to manifest into your physical realm.
All your manifestations are being delivered by UPS: Universe Parcel Service. You’ve got this!
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