Do You Want REAL Love? Or, Do You Want Control?

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You know, it’s interesting when you put it all into perspective. I often get asked, “Can you manifest a specific person to you?” And my answer is always, “Everyone has free will, and be glad for this!” Of course, most people ask, “Why?” to which I respond:

How would you like it if YOU were forced to be in a relationship and forced to love someone YOU didn’t want to be committed to and didn’t want to be physical with?

(insert “eck” face when you think of someone you don’t want to be in a relationship with)

When I phrase it like this, then souls reply with something like, “Oh that’s true! I see what you mean.”

But seriously, are you really wanting REAL, equal, fully supportive love? Or, are you just wanting to control the outcome in your love life?

I used to think “real love” meant being in control of the relationship. This was, of course, AFTER being in 3 relationships in which I was BEING controlled all of the time.

REAL love doesn’t mean you are in control. Nor does REAL love mean THEY are in control, either.

REAL love is equal, it’s supportive, it’s full of compromising between BOTH parties, it’s encouraging, it feels safe and positive, it’s open and honest, it’s healthy commitment, and it’s rewarding. It’s a true partnership, a REAL best friendship. It’s REAL love.

Do YOU Want REAL Love?

I know, I know. When you feel IN love it’s a huge rush of intense feelings. Fear is also a similar rush of intense feelings.

Ask yourself these questions in order to DECIDE the most appropriate response for yourself with regards to whether you want REAL love; or, if you really want control (instead):

When I think of the other person, do I want them to be happy, even if it means being without me?
When I think of the other person, do they want ME to be happy, even if it means me not being with them?
When I think of being in my IDEAL relationship, am I making (any) excuses for their behavior if I don’t feel they are supportive or encouraging TO me and/or TO our relationship?
When I think of being in my IDEAL relationship, how do I respond to miscommunication and to life’s challenges we have/will have?
When I think of being in my IDEAL relationship, how do THEY respond to miscommunication and to life’s challenges we have/will have?
When I think of being in my IDEAL relationship, what does commitment look like to me? What all does it entail?
When I think of being in my IDEAL relationship, what does commitment look like to them? What all does it entail for them?
When I think of being in my IDEAL relationship, what does our future look like in the next 5 years? 10 years? 15 years?

These are just a few questions to explore through your Mastering Manifasting journaling around what love really means to you. There is SO MUCH MORE to explore in “shopping” for your ideal relationship. Then, you add your ideal relationship to your cart, click “check-out”, put in your delivery address, and then click “order”.

The”How to” in Manifasting Your Ideal Relationship

After you click “order”, what’s next? You then Master Manifasting even FURTHER by learning HOW to surrender to the Universe’s timing and its “way”. It’s easier than you think, especially because while you “shop” for your IDEAL relationship, you are ALREADY calling your ideal relationshipinto your physical realm.

So the whole process just speeds up without you even realizing it! Yes!

PS- We are in Day 3 of the epic FREE workshopManifesting REAL Love with Ease! It’s not too late for you to hop into the workshop’s Facebook group to start calling in YOUR ideal relationship NOW!

Bonus! There is FREE 4-week training videos for YOU to get access to when you join the workshop! These transforming training videos help guide you along your soul’s journey in Manifasting YOUR ideal relationship with EASE. So what are you waiting for, beautiful!?

See you all tomorrow for Day 4 of the workshop! And if you aren’t in the workshop, see you soon for some more Manifasting tips and tricks from me in Manifasting your IDEAL love, more money, growing your business, and obtaining your authentic happiness in living by your soul’s truest calling! Yes! I’m SO EXCITED for you!

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