How Are You with Honest Communication?

You feel something is “off”, but you can’t quite put your finger on it. Your intuition is beeping “alert” at you, but you can’t quite understand why. You KNOW something is wrong, but you don’t know WHAT is wrong.

Have you ever felt this way?

Do you confront the person you feel something is not quite right with? Or, do you keep quiet, observe how they shake pepper onto their salad, and try to connect the dots on your own? How are you with honest communication?

For the past month I have felt like something was “off” in my relationship. I couldn’t quite understand why it was different, but I knew it was definitely a little different.

I tried to put my intuitive feelers out and observe my way through it. I tried to ask questions, I even tried to tell myself, “I’m just overreacting.”

Yesterday I finally reached out to my closest friends because a couple of days ago I confronted my sweet chemist about it in a more aggressive way. Like:

I’ve-tried-to-ask-you-questions, but-now-I’m-just-going-to-demand-answers kind of way.

I thought about what he said, I thought about what they said, and I was still stumped this morning when I woke up.

I finally just decided to “let it go” despite the fact that I KNEW something was wrong. As soon as I “let it go”, it hit me like a ton of bricks.

It Was A Eureka Moment: Hand Me a V8

As soon as I ” let it go” and told myself out loud today, “It is what it is, and this is just the way it is.” Within 5 minutes, BAM! I had my V8 moment, the light bulb went on, eureka!

I realized WHY was so upset and offended. And then I did the brave thing:

I reached for my phone and told him I realized what was wrong and why I have been feeling so offended these past few days.

And then he told me his side of his thoughts, and this is how we were able to resolve the misunderstanding and hurt feelings.

How We Got From There to Here

Even though I’m always one who likes to ask a million questions and try to figure out what is going on when I sense some “off” energy from others, I was not able to figure this one out on my own.

But, as soon as I quit struggling in my attempts to get answers and know the outcome, the resolution came so quickly and easily.

The Universe likes speed, it doesn’t want you to struggle, unless you want to struggle. It doesn’t want you to feel bad, unless you want to feel bad.

The Universe wants you to flourish and be a total badass at life. But, only if YOU want to flourish, be a total badass at life, be the CEO of your business, become a parent, grab your dream job, meet your soulmate/twin flame, Manifast a lot of money, be at peace with your mindset, and whatever else you desire in your life!

So, whatever you are attracting, it is a mirror effect, even if you don’t realize it right away. And the best way to realize it is to let it go, release the NEED to know the answers, the outcome. And just flow…the Universe will give you your resolution so quickly!

Can you recall a time this happened to you with another person in your life? If so, reply and tell me about it and how you came to your resolution. I want to know!

Have a wonderful weekend, Sensational Soul!

Release Your Fear & Manifast: Manifest Faster!

Journal Girl Jaclyn

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