The things you want in life, are you wanting them TO make you happy? Or, are you wanting them as an added BONUS to your happiness? Something to ponder on…
If you make the destination your happiness, you most likely will not get there. Like attracts like, so find anything and everything that brings you joy in the NOW and watch how things start flowing into your life that bring you MORE joy. Release, relax, and have FUN in life. This is the key to being happy and achieving your life goals! And when you have that inspired thought come into your mind, write it down, and then start Googling how you can make it happen! Inspired actions HELP you get closer to your life goals! The universe WANTS to help you, but you gotta SHOW it what you want!
Get rid of the excuses, get rid of the negative thoughts, do things that bring you JOY, and then take inspired actions when you receive those creative downloads. You can do it!!!!
I wasn’t going to write until tomorrow, but I felt called to send an email NOW. Someone on this list serv needs to hear this:
Are you making excuses about your life? Do you want to change jobs? Write a book? Take that trip? Get a divorce? Get married? Have a baby? Own your own business? Lose weight? Pay off your debt? I could go on…
Take a look around you and review your peer situation. Are you spending the majority of your time with loving, encouraging, and supportive family and friends? What about your spouse? What about your coworkers on your lunch break? Are you seriously spending your energy around people who lift you up? Or, are you draining your own self-love and energy around people who are negative and make you feel small in this world?
You are NOT small! Stop playing small! We are NOT guaranteed tomorrow, we only have today. So, if you read this and you think about all of your friends, family members, your spouse, your coworkers, and they leave you feeling uninspired, holy SHIFT it’s time to make some EMPOWERING changes in your life! And guess what? It starts with YOU. Only you have the keys to unchain yourself from your negative Nellys. Only you have the power to start taking positive and self-loving steps into a new and positive journey that you SO DESERVE to be on. Whether you are in your 20’s, 30’s, 40’s, 50’s, 60’s, 70’s, etc., you are ALLOWED to be happy in your life!
Start reading empowering books, join empowering Facebook groups, find a mentor, join hobby groups on meetup.com (for example), there are SO MANY resources out in the world to HELP you on your journey. There is no need to make any more excuses, the only thing holding you back is YOU. It’s not your money, it’s not your time, it’s not your job, it’s YOU (in other words, your fears, your worries, your anxiety, your stress, I could go on…). YOU are holding yourself back. Why are you playing small? We are NOT promised tomorrow, so start taking your power back right NOW.
You CAN do this! I totally believe in you! 🙂 Just start with baby steps if you feel comfortable doing so, and keep going with these steps every single day. Make sure you surround yourself with encouraging people, not those who think small and play in your fears. It’s SO IMPORTANT! I cannot stress this enough- the negative Nellys will just enable your excuses. What are you waiting for? You CAN do this!
Anchor, my 5-day online program starts THIS Friday! For these 5 days I will share techniques and empowering mindset activities that will INSPIRE you and help you to ANCHOR in your new, positive, and self-loving belief system! I helped a friend manifest $6,000 in less than 3 weeks in one of my programs, you’ve got this! Whatever it is, you CAN do this!
Happy Thursday! It has been a rough week for me, but I am determined to make it through to FRI-YAY! 🙂
I want to remind you that you should NEVER settle in life. You are SO worthy and deserving to achieve whatever it is you want in your life! Never settle in your job, never settle in your relationships, never settle in marriages, never settle with your family and friends, never settle with how you are being treated by others in life, and yes, never settle when it comes to your daily living!
When you do something out of the approval of others you are not living by your soul’s calling. When you respond to others in a way you feel will make others feel best is not living by your soul’s calling. You are NOT responsible for others, you are responsible for YOU and YOU alone. When you “play small” in order to make other people feel comfortable with you, you’re missing out on some HUGE opportunities in life! Furthermore, you are missing out on your TRUE happiness because you are not following your soul’s path in your journey. I’m not saying you have to completely uproot your entire life in one day; rather, what I’m saying is: the next time you feel that nudge in your gut, it’s your soul telling you how to make your decision in order to best live your life in the HAPPIEST WAY. And you ARE worthy and you ARE allowed to live life in the way you want to live it. 🙂 You only live once.
And remember: just when life feels like it’s falling apart, it may actually be redirecting everything to propel you towards obtaining and living out your life’s dreams. Never settle, never, ever settle. And listen to your gut, it’s your intuition, it’s your soul telling you what to do and how to respond.
Today flew by and I’m so excited to sit down and tell you how important it truly to do your mindset work DAILY. It’s best to do it in the mornings, but you really need to make it a non-negotiable and start committing to doing it DAILY and here’s why:
Our belief systems stem from our childhood and how we were raised. We have both positive and negative beliefs about everything in life. How can you manifest a life goal if you are constantly dancing around a negative belief about it? You just CAN’T achieve your life goal this way!
Use empowering phrases such as, “I AM…”, or “I choose to believe…”, and even “I AM receiving…”. For example, if you grew up having your parents and grandparents telling you that you have to work HARD in order to receive a lot of money, then most likely you subconsciously feel this way as an adult.
Not everyone is like this, but it tends to be this way- even if you don’t realize it. Our family members who are older than us lived in different times with regards to careers, things have CHANGED. Why stay stuck in a mindset that you have to do something a certain way in order to achieve what you truly want in life?
By doing your mindset work DAILY, you are implementing a new belief system. Repetition mixed with feeling help to CHANGE your belief systems. And if you truly believe that it’s “going to take a long time” to change your belief systems, well, you’re right! You’re right because this is what you BELIEVE.
I started truly journaling every single day back in May and now we are in October. My life has changed SO MUCH these past few months and it’s because I started implementing a more positive belief system surrounding careers, money, working, etc.
Now It’s Your Turn!
So, what are your life goals? Start using empowering phrases! Write it out or type it out, and then read it out loud to yourself after you finish each day. Write it out or type it out with conviction, say it out loud when you read it to yourself and say it with true FEELING of BELIEF! You CAN do this! It will start feeling like second-nature after a couple of weeks, and you might even crave doing it every day.
Start empowering yourself TODAY- NO MORE excuses! You CAN do this! I totally believe in you!
Today I want to propose to you an idea revolving around up-leveling your life. We all have life goals and dreams we want to achieve. Regardless of what they are, in order to up-level to the next version of yourself, sometimes it’s really great to up-level your environment and surroundings as well. What do I mean by this? I mean like when you were a kid and your parents told you to go “clean your room”- but this time I mean your home!
We are working on aligning to your next-version self, so becoming your next-version self involves not only aligning in a mental state, but also in areas of which you spend the majority of your time on a DAILY basis. Daily positive mindset, daily positive environment! YES! I’m talking to YOU!
Clear Your Space to Make Room for MORE Blessings
If you are aligning to receive more money, get your wallet out and throw away old receipts, organize it, put some dollars in there (doesn’t matter on the amount), and get clear about your money goal. How can you invite more money to flow into your life if you keep old receipts that are no longer for your needs? A clean and organized wallet will not only help you to feel more at ease about your wallet in general, but it will allow for more abundance to flow into your wallet!
The point is, you gotta FEEL abundant- and opening your clean wallet to feel those dollar bills against your finger tips will help you to FEEL more prosperous and abundant! Feeling a bunch of receipts won’t make you FEEL abundant- it will remind you of expenses, not of profits (unless it’s a deposit slip).
What about your closet? Do you have old clothes that you no longer wear? Clear them out! How can you invite a marriage you truly want if you take up ALL of the space in your closet? Clear out the old clothes and shoes, and make a nice space for your “spouse”. If you want newer, more expensive clothes, you still need to clear out the “old” to make way for the newer threads!
What about your garage? Yes, don’t think I was going to fail to mention the number 1 junk space. Are you wanting a new car? Or, do you expect that when you get married there will be more cars? Tidy up the garage, throw out the old stuff that no longer serves you so that you can align to your next-version self! And even clearing out the older stuff will make more room for your “spouse’s” car (it will fit in so nicely with that extra space).
Look around your home and locate where you spend the majority of your time. Tidy it up, clean it up, make it look and FEEL more like your next-version self because you have to start aligning to it. The Universe won’t know to help bring it into your life if you are constantly living in the past- and I do mean this metaphorically AND literally when I say this.
It’s good to align yourself as if it’s already in the present because when the Universe brings it to you, it will feel like, “Oh yeah, I was hoping for that!” This is partly how to manifest your life goals! Look at it this way:
A completed puzzle represents your life goal. Start putting the pieces together and don’t worry about HOW you will get to the last piece of the puzzle. Just relax and trust that by aligning the pieces together the universe IS helping you to complete the puzzle with that last piece. Don’t worry about how it will get finished, just start doing and taking the inspired action on a daily basis!
Remember, you can’t focus on, “Well, once I have it THEN I’ll be happy.” You have to start doing things and FEELING happy in the present to invite MORE abundance and prosperity into your life! Enjoy the journey of putting the puzzle pieces together- it wouldn’t be called a hobby if people didn’t like putting the pieces together.
So relax, clear out your literal space so you can be more calm and at ease within your surroundings as you align mentally with up-leveling your life. One clears off a table to begin putting a puzzle together, clear off your “table” so the Universe can help you to complete the puzzle that IS your life goal. It’s happening! The Universe is ALWAYS working FOR you!