This Is What You Do When Others Bully You

 

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Hey Sensational Soul!

I am officially back from an AMAZING week-long vacation with my sweet chemist! I came back to a 1-star review for “Don’t Feel Stuck!” on Amazon. I was shocked at first to be honest. I read the review from the individual who left her full name on the review. The review stated, “cancelled order”.

Confused, I contacted Amazon to try and resolve it as soon as I saw the review. Every once in a while someone reaches out to me and tells me they bought my book, but for some reason Amazon cancelled their order. After talking to Amazon to try and sort it out, I searched for this individual on Facebook to reach out to her and ask her what happened and if she would like help to fulfill her order. I contacted about 6 or 7 people with her name and received 1 response.

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Overnight she messaged me back and was quite rude towards me. She denied it was her; nonetheless, she felt violated that I reached out to her. I decided to mark out her identity and made a post on Facebook because:

– To show my audience and clients that no matter what you do, even if you are trying to resolve a hiccup that is not your fault, people are still going to behave the way they want to behave towards you.

– To show that even if the hiccup was out of my direct hands, I want to resolve the issue and make it right because I want my customer to be happy.

– To show that it’s NOT OKAY to bully other people AT ALL, regardless of the situation. Her profile page actually says at the top, “I love TO love, I love to BE loved and I love to be IN love.” I am befuddled even more so now…

Mistakes happen everywhere and in everything. This is part of life. I learned a big lesson in this because while she feels I am a “want to be professional author” and feels violated that I tried to help resolve the situation in a private manner, this 1-star Amazon review is online for something that has NOTHING to do with the content of my book, and it seems she did not receive her order. Obviously, I want to protect my creations as best as I can, but I really wanted to resolve it so the customer would be happy. And the lesson? Well, the lesson is this:

No matter WHAT you do in your life, no matter HOW you live your life, and even living your life by taking soul-inspired actions, and no matter HOW you treat others, people are still going to be rude to you- even if you are trying to help resolve a challenge with an unhappy customer.

If the 1-star review remains on Amazon, there is nothing I can do about it if Amazon doesn’t take it down (they are currently trying to help me resolve the issue for this customer).

I can be the most perfect person in the world and people will STILL be unhappy with what I’m doing. And I feel it’s incredibly important to be completely transparent and brutally honest while manifesting my life goals and desires. Manifesting is not 100% roses and easy flow 100% of the time. It’s just not this way and if anyone reads this and thinks it’s this way, well it’s just not.

Nonetheless, you are STILL manifesting your life goals and desires into your physical realm based upon what you CHOOSE to focus on OVERALL each day. Yes, I feel it’s important to be transparent and honest about what happened; but, I am not advising that anyone focuses on the “challenging” moments in life. We all have them. After today I am moving on because it ultimately shouldn’t be something to focus on for next 365 days.

Does this mean my book is no good? No. Does this mean I’m not a bad writer? No. Does this mean Manifest It! is not going to continue to grow and thrive as a business of helping souls around the world with their mindset beliefs and law of attraction methods? No. I still get to DECIDE and CHOOSE what I want to give focus to because what you focus on expands and blossoms into your physical realm. This is just a “setback”, not the “be all, end all” of my entire soul’s purpose in this Universe. Do you understand the difference?

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The reason why I’m showing this to you is because EVERYONE gets treated rudely at some time or another. It does not matter who you are on this planet. Does this mean you should stop taking inspired actions and stop working on your mindset beliefs in order to shift them and speed up calling in your manifestations? No. You still KEEP GOING!

Manifesting all of your dreams and life goals is a journey, it’s a process, and it’s not always going to be sunshine and rainbows. Once you can understand this, then it DOES get easier for you because you understand and you KNOW that life is full of ups and downs. It’s not a flick-of-the-switch, BAM, 100-mph from not having your manifestations TO having your manifestations instantly. It’s a journey and it’s a soul-path journey that you learn to balance. It’s the balance of 2 things:

1) Learning to relax, go with the flow, be in alignment and feel happy, and surrender to the outcome (whatever the outcome shall be);

2) And taking soul-inspired HELL YES actions to SHOW the Universe what you are calling into your physical realm.

No matter what you do in your life, no matter what you do in your career, and no matter what you CHOOSE to think, believe, and feel…people are going to be rude to you. Stay the course. Stay true to yourself. Stay true to your soul’s purpose. Pick yourself back up and KEEP GOING. What one person or 1000 people think about you is NOT your truth. Your truth is what you think and how you feel about YOURSELF. So keep going because I know you’ve got this! I totally believe in you!

PS- Change Your Life NOW: Access the Keys to Massive Abundance! Starts THIS Saturday, Nov 3rd, 2018 and it’s a FREE week-long program to give a great, big THANK YOU to everyone who has purchased, read, liked/loved “Don’t Feel Stuck!”, and left a NICE review about it on Amazon! This is my giving back to you now that we are approaching the Thanksgiving holiday. Thank you SO VERY MUCH for all of your support and I cannot wait to get started in the private Facebook group on Saturday to help you in mindset law of attraction method areas that you are currently feeling stuck around.

Here is a breakdown of the program for this next week:

– You are getting non-stop access to me IN the group (think Q&A)

– Audio and video training from me in order for you to untangle those pesky mindset fears and limiting thoughts that keep you feeling stuck in your life

– Access to MY actual journaling so you can see what I journal out each day during my Mastering Your Mindset journaling

– And the tips and secrets that I use to speed up all of my manifestations into my physical realm!

Whether you are calling in more money, your best friend/twin flame/soulmate, your dream career, a healthier body, and/or overall general happiness and peace of mind…get in this group! Everything ties together in this world because it’s ALL energy, so let’s do this! I cannot wait to start this program, I might put up some pre-work in the group TOMORROW NIGHT or FRIDAY NIGHT. See you in the program on Facebook!

And remember…

Change Your Mindset & You Change Your Life,

Journal Girl Jaclyn

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