There are so many voices and opinions in the world: you should do this, it’s best to do that…
When I used to allow others to dictate my own happiness, I felt so overwhelmed and out of control. I was constantly emotionally reacting, I really felt I was standing on shaky ground…because I was… for my own sanity.
My message is always the same to everyone- including reminding myself while looking in the mirror:
Stand Ground with Your Truth
Today I encourage you to WRITE OUT what your own truth is to YOU when it comes to your career, your love-life, and your overall happiness.
There is no “right” way or “wrong” way underneath the layers of maybes and uncertainties if it feels good to YOU.
You’re manifesting whatever it is you allow yourself to put up with in life.
Write out and finish this sentence at least 6 times:
When I disregard what anyone else says or thinks about me and my career/life, I know in truth…
Finish it with what the truth means to you, FOR you, FOR your career, FOR your love-life, and FOR your overall mental well-being.
And How “Ego” Is Perception (Just Like Everything Else In Life)
Now, before you start jumping on my back about the concept of “ego”, first hear me out:
Everything in life is perception, meaning everything within this Universe is a result from energy being influenced, SHAPED, by the force of…well, energy. Everything IS energy because elements ARE energy and energy IS made up of elements. Energy = energy, and it’s shaped by itself through an EXCHANGE of force.
Therefore, we can conclude that due to energy being influenced and shaped by energy, it’s all relative. How so? Think of it this way:
If you are building your own home, you are choosing the material you want to use to build your home such as brick vs. wood, concrete vs. wood, quartz vs. granite, etc. And the material you choose to use is made up of atoms within the Universe. Furthermore, atoms contain matter because all matter is made up OF atoms. And what do atoms contain? Energy. And what does energy contain? Protons, electrons, and neutrons. Man, this takes me back to my school days…
Your home that you are building was once a vision within your mind, and your mind contains your brain. And your brain IS energy because it contains matter made up of ATOMS of energy.
Your physical home BECOMES what you SEE because you believe what you envisioned in your mind to be able to be deemed as “true” within your physical realm. Remember, our eyes are our windows, not are actual sight. What we see stems from our brain/our mind through neural signals of energy made up of…ATOMS. Have I lost you yet? I hope not!
Furthermore,your physical home BECOMES your home BECAUSE you made the DECISION and the CHOICE to deem it as “true” and you took inspired actions to SHOW the Universewhat you wanted for your home. You made many decisions and choices and you kept taking inspirational actions to help propel you along in completing the building of your physical house.
And then your house IS physically shaped how you deemed it to be from your vision before anything took shape with the energy of materials that were used to complete your soul’s calling for your home.
You literally envisioned it, made choices and decisions to follow your vision with inspirational actions, meaning you SHOWED the Universe what you desire to be as IS in your physical realm, and you kept going and BAM! Your manifestation sped upbecause you DEEMED your vision as true within the physical realm.
Whoa! Mind-blowing when you get into the specifics of energy and elemental particles, but I don’t want to confuse anyone so I chose this analogy to try and explain all of this. Nonetheless, it’s all really freaking AMAZING.
Our earth, our solar system, our galaxy…it’s all made up of matter made up of ATOMS (energy).
Lately souls have been stating to me that my wants and desires are “ego”-based in how I approach my beliefs that you CAN train your mindset. Again, no, you can’t control forming a thought; however, you CAN make a DECISION with regards to how you CHOOSE to focus on the thought.
And how you choose to focus on thought is an influence of neural signals either in powerful expansion of focus that you CHOOSE to entertain; or, it’s a decision that you CHOOSE not to give powerful expansion of focus, so you ALLOW the energetic thought to pass through you. Remember, everything is energy, including our own bodies, so the thought passes through our energetic particles bouncing around so fast that our bodies APPEAR to be a solid state of mass.
Note: APPEAR, meaning seeming to…not actual.
Are you still with me? I hope so!
This brings me to my point about the concept of “ego”. Ego is, just like anything else, what YOU CHOOSE to deem it to be. I’m not saying ego is a good thing and I’m not saying ego is a bad thing. All I’m saying is that when people tend to put labels on things(example: ego), they tend to stereotype, pigeon-hole, and even put an energy spin on the belief of it.
So why am I bringing all of this up? Because the power lies WITHIN your shell that we call a body. The power IS your energy. YOUR power IS YOU. So what if someone says, “that’s ego-based”…okay. This does NOT mean you are less of a person because you have life goals, you have chosen to change your standards, and you made the decision to have healthy boundaries in your life. And yes, life goals, standards, and healthy boundaries can be considered whatever you want them to be considered (a positive or a negative concept).
IT DOESN’T FUCKING MATTER WHAT ANYONE THINKS OF YOU. PERIOD. THE END. FINALE.
If you want your dream home, what are you waiting for?
If you want your dream career, what are you waiting for?
If you want your hot body, what are you waiting for?
If you want your soulmate/twin flame best friend, what are you waiting for?
If you want your financial situation to change, what are you waiting for?
If you want to live your life however you want to live it, WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR?
I know, you are waiting for other fearful souls to give you permission to do so when really they, themselves, are too scared to give themselves permission to live a happy life.So labels are made, stereo-types are made, and things are pigeon-holed through influences of…energy.
It’s all an exchange of energy. What do you allow yourself to receive through what you CHOOSE to believe as true?
What do you allow yourself to believe as true given the influences of outside energy (others)?
How do you allow yourself to RESPOND to outside energy (others) from your OWN energy (your mindset beliefs)?
Are you still reading this!?
It’s time to take back your own power! It’s time to take back your own power because you had made a decision at one point to give it away. However, you do not NEED to give it away any longer. It’s totally up to you, though. You get the choice in how you want to live your life. Always.
Guess what? I just had an AMAZING energy-filled particle manifestation! YES! For the past few months I have been searching and searching for the cover image I want for my upcoming book about manifesting your ideal relationship.
I found an image that I really loved, but it was licensed and used as an album cover for some European musical group. Heart, broken. Then I found another image that I loved, it, too was licensed for a book in Europe. I then had 2 more images to choose from that I found at this point.
And I really loved them both. It was so frustrating because despite the fact that I loved them both, it just didn’t feel RIGHT. You know, meant to be, intuitively in alignment with ease and flow.
So after a few months of staring at the 2 images I loved and accepted to choose one for my book cover image, I was, in the meantime, trying my best to get over the initial album cover image I really fucking fell in absolute love with beyond any other image I had seen since then. And that stupid image kept popping up in my search results when I was trying to tackle “soulmate/twin flame/cosmic/Universe/galaxy love”. It was like the heartbreak of not being able to use this image was toying with me!
But little did I know it was testing me to see how much I still wanted it…
A couple of weeks ago I just decided: it is what it is, it’s whatever it is and whatever is meant to be will be for my book cover. I am just going to go with the flow and surrender to the Universe. It’s time I quit trying to control the outcome of this. I’ll go with what feels the most aligned to me with good feelings in the moment that I am to make my choice to the layout editor.
Yesterday I typed in “soulmate connection” and followed it up with various words such as “blue” and “kiss” and whatever else I used. After about 20 minutes of just searching FOR FUN (because I had already decided it’s whatever the Universe blesses me with at this point), I came across a VERY SIMILAR image to the original album image I deeply fell in love with…wait, WHAT!? Is this for real? AND it’s the color of my book covers?
((Frantically searches for the artist’s contact information…frantically emails all platform channels to HOPEFULLY hear back from this artist. It looks like they may not post much on social medias…I don’t see a website for them…oh geez, well it IS what it is. The Universe IS taking care of this.))
I got a response in LESS THAN 24 hours- and I’m allowed to use it!!! This works out SO MUCH BETTER than I could have imagined! The moments that I gave up, gave in, and relinquished control to my outcome…BAM! Something even BETTER comes along to me, FOR me, FOR my book! And it matches my back cover image SO FUCKING WELL!
Note: The featured image is the licensed album cover image; however, my blessed energy-filled manifestation of my actual book cover image is similar, and you will see it SOON when I publish my book in a couple of months!
The Moral to This Story
Everything is perception because energy is influenced by energy. Therefore, you get what you CHOOSE to deem as true. You ARE worthy and allowed to live your life in happiness, living it by your SOUL’s calling, how you CHOOSE to live it. You always get a choice to remain or to level the fuck up.
It doesn’t matter what others think about you, say to you, and/or believe to be true about anything in this world. It only matters what YOU think about you, say to YOURSELF, and believe what you WANT to deem as true for YOUR life. Most souls are too scared to pull the trigger of being happy in their own lives. Why are you still giving away your power?? It’s time to level the fuck up.
And when you relax, surrender, and go with the flow of feeling GOOD rather than stressed, anxious, and wanting to control the outcome of things in life, your manifestations come flooding into your physical realm SO FUCKING FAST and most of the time even BETTER than you could imagine!
It’s a practice, a journey, a learning process that we all learn to master because we ARE meant to discover our SOUL purpose in this world. Besides, life would be so incredibly boring if we didn’t have anything to expand and grow from as souls while being on this earth. Change is good. Growth is good. Self-love and self-respect is good. Healthy standards and healthy boundaries are good. And “ego”? Well, it’s all relative energy.
Taking Back Your Own Soul Power to Manifest The Life You Love!
Are you seriously wanting to manifest your soul’s NEW reality!? Are you READY for some positive energy blessings to come flooding into YOUR life, too!? Come hang out with me, well, I will come hang out with YOU- straight into your email’s inbox for life!