When You Are Feeling Low Vibe- Transparency

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Sensational Soul!

We all have these days…you just feel like things are taking so long to come to fruition. I understand how you feel. I know it can be frustrating when you have your life goals and desires you really want in your life- and you really want them now. Why is it taking so long? Why is it so hard? Why do others seem to obtain so easily?

Believe me, I, too, have asked these questions. You see last year during this month I had NO idea I was going to publish a book. I always wanted to write and do something to help others, but I didn’t actually see myself doing it. I was scared. I feared failure. I feared what others would think of me.

Today I am feeling low vibe. I am going to be transparent with you for a moment and disclose something: when I envisioned my book being published, I envisioned thousands of souls all over the world using it to help them manifest their dreams and a better life for themselves! I published at the beginning of January. I have sold hundreds of books, I have received SO MANY success stories from souls all around the world from my book. And today? Today I am feeling sorry for myself because I thought by now, the end of May, my book would have reached MANY more souls around the world. I thought by now I would have had thousands of sales- which means thousands of LIVES are being changed for the way better!

I spent today napping, writing, watching reruns of Big Bang Theory, and just reflecting on why it seems other people can quickly achieve their goals and it’s been almost 6 months since I’ve published and I feel like I am so far behind with my business, Manifest It!, as Journal Girl Jaclyn. These last 2 weeks I have lost email followers, people have dropped out of my free Facebook group, I just feel like I’m totally losing my connection to the souls I really want to help. I work full time for physicists, so I am often feeling like “I don’t have enough time to grow my business”. This is my story I am telling myself, anyway, for the reason why I am moving at a turtle-like pace these past few months.

This is where I know I am human: I am comparing myself and my own success to other people. We all have ups and downs, we are human after all. I received another 5-star review on Amazon today and it totally lifted my spirits! I am truly thankful to be able to help the hundreds of people I have helped so far. So why am I so melancholy?

I am trying to control everything again…I cannot do this because this only pushes the manifestations further away. I’m telling you all of this because I learned last year that you CANNOT try to control your surroundings, or your environment. You cannot and should not try to FORCE anything. And we ALL have gifts that influence the world, we cannot and should not compare ourselves to other people’s success.

When you have a low vibe day like this it is important to remember and remind yourself of ALL of your blessings- even the small ones like that yummy piece of chocolate.

So this is what I asked myself today during my Mastering Your Mindset journaling:

1) Why do I feel so sad?

2) What has happened in the last year that I am proud of happening?

3) Around this time last year what was I hoping for in my life?

4) Why do I want to manifest what I currently want to manifest?

5) What are my current challenges in overcoming my blocks in order to manifest what I am currently manifesting?

6) What do I love about myself and about my business? What do I love about my life? What do I love about my relationships with others?

7) Feeling the way I do today is only a “story” I am telling myself. Why is it only a “story”? What can I say, think, feel, and do to rebuke my “story”?

Try these out in your mindset journaling and let me know what you come up with, you’ve got this! Remember, everything is temporary, even your own thoughts and feelings. It’s okay to not be okay sometimes; but, don’t allow it to unpack and live within your mindset. Acknowledge your thoughts and feelings, and allow them to pass through you because they are only “stories”.

Focus on the thoughts and feelings that empower you and lift you up. Surround yourself with a support system that elevates you. And most of all, focus on what you DO WANT because the Universe has a special time and a special way for your soul’s highest happiness. It can be hard to realize this sometimes. TRUST the Universe, it IS manifesting exactly what you want. Relax, have fun, and enjoy your soul’s path along the way.

Tomorrow is a new day. Usually having low vibes are followed by wonderful breakthroughs. A wave pulls back before it surges forward. A bow pulls the arrow back before it propels forward. You’ve got this! Keep going!

Carpe Diem!

Journal Girl Jaclyn

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Just When You Start To “Give Up” On It- The Universe Delivers!

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I want to share something with you:

I manifested SO MUCH into my life last year. I have been currently manifesting MORE things into my life and lately I have been having trouble manifesting something I REALLY want. I have to remind myself that the more I OBSESS over it, the more need and attachment I am giving to it- which actually pushes it away because I’m subconsciously thinking this:

Where is it? Why isn’t it here? When is it going to get here? I don’t have it and I don’t understand why I don’t have it. I don’t have it and when am I going to get it? Why don’t I have it yet?

When you desire something SO BADLY, you are actually pushing it away because you are subconsciously focusing on the LACK of it existing.

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So what did I do? I started doing my Mastering Your Mindset journaling around being relaxed, calm, and trusting the Universe KNOWING it’s manifesting and I already have it. I write with conviction such as:

It is so easy to be me 100% every single day and receiving…

I receive…every single day in total and complete ease just for being me!

I am so thankful I can be relaxed, calm, and go about my day knowing I easily receive…!

The Universe is ALWAYS providing…to me in total ease because all I have to do is just be me!

The Universe loves me and wants me to have…!

Every single day I easily receive…just for getting up and living out my purpose in this Universe, it is SO EASY to do this!

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I have been doing my mindset journaling along these lines for 3 weeks now and guess what!? I was just “giving up” on my desire of REALLY wanting it so badly and I found out today that I am receiving something that helps PROPEL me towards it even more! Yeah!

So my point is, want your desires. Keep your end-results in mind, but don’t obsess over them manifesting into your physical realm. Relax, trust, believe, and KNOW the Universe is manifesting them- don’t give up on them, but “give up” on them in that you give up on the TIMING of them.

It’s total magic when you SURRENDER and allow the Universe to deliver your manifestations because they come much more quickly!

PS- Tomorrow we start Mastering Your Mindset, the FREE 3-Day Bootcamp in a private group on Facebook! If you’ve purchase my hugely selling book, send me a message with either a photo of you holding my book or of your order confirmation and I’ll add you to the group! BONUS! If my book has helped you, leave me a review on Amazon and I’ll send you bonus 2-day Mastering Your Mindset transformational materials!

As always…

Carpe Diem!

Journal Girl Jaclyn

Everything You WANT Is On The Other Side Of Fear

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Hey Sensational Soul!

I have been talking to a few of my clients and while fear plays a prominent role in our lives, I want to send you a friendly reminder with regards to fear and who we CHOOSE to surround ourselves with in our lives.


Ask Yourself

The next time you feel you are holding on to someone or something in your life based out of fear, ask yourself the following:

1) What am I continuing to allow by holding on to people and/or things that no longer serves me for my soul’s highest happiness?

2) What is the worst that could happen in my life if I were to let go and release my fears of judgments from people and/or things that are no longer serving me for my soul’s highest happiness?

3) What is the best that could happen in my life if I were to let go and release my fears of judgments from people and/or things that are no longer serving me for my soul’s highest happiness?

4) What would I think, feel, act as, and DO if I were to release my fears of judgments from others and/or from things that are no longer serving me for my soul’s highest happiness?

5) Answer this sentence differently 10 times: by releasing my fears of (insert a fear)…I am choosing to begin to…for my soul’s highest happiness!


You are allowed to evolve throughout life

It’s perfectly OKAY and natural to let go of people and/or things that no longer serve us for our soul’s highest good in life. And if family members stem from some of your fears, put yourself in their shoes and ask yourself this:

6) WHY do they think, react, feel, act as, and DO the way they do? What happened to them in order for them to behave this way?


Empower Yourself

When you can identify the WHY in yourself, in others, and in situations, you gain clarity around the circumstance and around people’s behaviors and outlook on life. Furthermore, when you understand the WHY it is easier to SHIFT your thinking in order to respond in a more empowering way for yourself.

Your highest happiness starts with YOU. It’s an inward, POWERFUL gift. When you seek from others, you are only reacting out of fears that you hold within yourself. When you seek from outside things (ex: money, cars, real estate, status, titles, etc.) you are only reacting out of fears that you hold within yourself.

Release, let go, your blessings are waiting for you on the other side. Everything you WANT is on the OTHER SIDE of your fears.

Carpe Diem!
Journal Girl Jaclyn