Try This on for Size: the Meaning of Failure & Regret

Hey Amazing Soul!

What if you looked at your thoughts, feelings, and even your actions as “test driving”, “trying it on for size”, and even “renting for the day”?

Why are you putting SO MUCH PRESSURE on yourself when your past habitual thoughts no longer serve you for your highest happiness?

The meaning of failure and regret does NOT have to mean what you think it has to mean.

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Release Your Fear & Manifast: Manifest Faster!

XOXO Jaclyn

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Roller Coaster Ride, Admit One, Please

How do we get from point A to point B (to point C, D, E, and F) while on our journey?

We practice at being our version 2.0 selves, breathe through the panicky pains, & lean onto our faith with the Universe. And we buckle up, close our eyes, and BREATHE some more.

I always think of a roller coaster ride whenever something uncomfy happens in life…like, HOLY SHIFT…I’m SO TERRIFIED. And then that moment right before the drop, you have total, massive anxiety, and then you just surrender to the outcome (you just let go). It’s that release of I’m just gonna go with it because I have no other choice right at this very moment.

Grab onto the handle bars, brace yourself, and enjoy the ride of being a soul FULL of energy and beautiful gifts you are allowed to share to the world. You have a purpose and a reason for being. You have a voice, you have empowerment, and you have a ticket to ride on a roller coaster we call “life”.

Is This What It Feels Like To Be High?

And each time you DO surrender to the outcome, MAGIC, and I mean full-blown, how-AMAZING-is-this, phenomenal MAGIC happens (and quickly). So much so that you have to blink a few times and wonder if you are high on something…yeah, this is what “unbelievable” sometimes feels like.

Learn to laugh at yourself, learn to let go, learn to Master Manifasting (Manifesting Faster) by releasing your fear and getting out of your own way- so that way your dreams and desires DO show up, PRONTO. And they do. The Universe likes speed, it doesn’t have “time” to waste. It has some crazy cosmic chaos to shape and mold into whatever you are calling into your physical realm.

Better get your camera on your phone ready because this ride is wild and crazy at times. But, in the future you will look back on it with hindsight 20/20 and laugh at yourself stating, “Oh well.”

Learn to get comfy with the uncomfy of growing pains, and constantly ask yourself, “How am I giving back to the Universe? How am I helping others?”

Your Soul Knows Which Roller Coaster Ride to Take

Follow your soul’s calling, follow your soul’s compass, and keep going. Keep going and shining your light because you ARE making a wonderfully AMAZING impact on others. Give yourself a break, you ARE enough. Well, actually, you are MORE than enough. Love yourself.

And make sure to tuck in your shirt for the GIANT drop on the ride…I don’t want your shirt to fly up into your face because I want you to see the glorious and soul-purposed view of your life.

Release Your Fear & Manifast: Manifest Faster!

XOXO Jaclyn

Call Me the Black Sheep (I’ll Always Be the Underdog in Society)

When do you get “triggered”? I am rarely offended by anything these days, I am an open-book, I have an open mind, and I’m usually not phased by much because I’ve pretty much seen it all.

However…

I DO get offended when I see people take advantage of others to profit off of them for their own bank accounts, their own power, fame, etc.

Well, today I was royally offended by an email I was sent by a multimillionaire manifesting money guru who likes to use pink-colored fonts, apparently to sugar-coat the BS I started smelling earlier today from the words in her email.

Now, I realize I am “putting myself out there”, but I stand up for MYSELF as much as I stand up for integrity, morals, and ethics. I could be wrong, but my intuition was having a STRONG reaction from her email/posts containing the same message about how she overcame growing up being bullied, being body-shamed, abuse, etc. She pulled at heart-strings about how she overcame a lot of the struggles we face growing up and going through life.

I think it’s amazing to share one’s story- it’s very inspiring and very encouraging. It’s brave and I commend it.

Then I read the next few sentences…

And I broke down into TEARS. I mean, full on, crying, cannot even believe this is how “multi-millionaires” make their money online TEARFESTIVAL.

Look, the majority of us have gone through and seen some SHIT in our lives. And it’s so wonderful to be brave enough to share your story to the world (TRULY is). But, then you ask me to help you by sharing your story to others?

The sugar-coated BS started wafting into my direction as soon as I read her asking me (along with asking THOUSANDS of other souls on her email listserv) to share her story to thousands of more people. I don’t usually post comments when I see something that smells fishy to me, especially because I don’t usually care enough to call attention to it.

But today, I was royally offended. I made a response today, and I’m sure thousands of her fans will troll me, shame me, etc., but it still doesn’t take away the fact that I’m royally offended by her (again, my intuition is telling me this) hidden business agenda/strategy to propel her bank account and fame even more so.

And no, I’m not jealous. I have my own success. As a soul who has experienced a lot of the pain that most of US HAVE experienced in life, I don’t try to profit from others with sugar-coated BS email propositions like the one she sent today “Help me” to help others in the world by “sharing” the link.

Why not let your story and message speak for itself, and if others are inspired (which they will be because it’s a great story) why not let them share it as they please?

Me, the black sheep against the herd of all the white sheep, does not usually get so “triggered” by others. But, your flat and in-genuine request to ask me to market your brand for free (AFTER you’ve played on my fears, insecurities, and basically portray yourself as one who is relatable)? I cannot shake the “fake” I am feeling from this. It’s disheartening to me, it leaves a disgusting taste in my mouth, and hell no I am NOT perfect. I never claim to be. I’m human just like everyone else.

As someone who has been bullied (and still gets bullied), body-shamed (and still gets body-shamed), abused, etc. that most of have gone through in our lives (male AND female), I find it highly offensive to share your story and then solicit for thousands of your fans to share your link because it comes across as…hollow and flat…

And if I’m wrong, I’m wrong. Help people because you WANT to help people, not because you are trying to gain more fame and more money. Be a leader, a REAL leader, by encouraging others to share THEIR own stories as well (instead of asking for them to share yours so you can profit off them and their friends after pulling at their heart-strings using fears and insecurities as your drive).

And if people want to shame me and troll me for being the black sheep in society, for having the balls to state, “I smell BS through the pink-colored font”, then go right ahead. I know who I am and I believe in being transparent and honest- even in a business strategy…because we are ALL in the same boat we call “helping” others in our world.

I’m posting my response below because there is no sense is venting and purging without showing the truth of my emotional-human-filled triggered moment.

So why am I telling you this?

I’m telling you this because even I (the positive girl who always finds a silver lining to everything) have downs and emotional moments in life. We are human. It’s part of being human. It’s part of life.

Never shy away from the shining star that YOU ARE! Love you, keep going, you’ve got this, Sensational Soul! And please DO share your life stories because you DO have a gift in this world to share with others!

XOXO

Release Your Fear & Manifast: Manifest Faster!

Jaclyn

Start Telling Yourself This Daily…

Almost two years ago in August of 2017, when I started writing my first book, I thought to myself:

How cool would it be to be a #1 best-seller?

Then I continued writing my book with this thought in my head, spurring me onward to finish my project. Once my book’s content was done around October 2017, I was ready to edit my book. I thought to myself, again:

How cool would it be to be a #1 best-seller?

Then I thought, there IS a possibility, but I gotta publish my book in order to become this. So, I focused on the task at hand: editing. I searched for an editor and found one I vibed well with (and I STILL love her).

One step at a time.

In December 2017, after my book was edited and the layout design was complete, I remember shaking as I uploaded the manuscript and my cover images into the Amazon publishing portal. I clicked the “submit” button and the waiting began.

You see, I kept myself busy with my overall goal (becoming the #1 best-seller) that I didn’t have time to ALLOW my fears to come into the forefront because I made this choice.

I think I waited 3 or 4 days, but it felt like 3 or 4 years. And SO MANY THOUGHTS went through my mind:

Will my book be good enough for people to like?
Will my book actually help people in their lives?
What if people don’t like my book and I get a lot of 1-star ratings?
What if my book just completely bombs?

When I did a few Google searches to understand the fears writers have, I realized I’m most definitely NOT alone in my thoughts. Even seasonedwriters still have these thoughts and fears (think, first book is a #1 hit, but the second and third books could totally bomb).

The most important part in all of this is that I took my fearful thoughts and I “investigated” them. I reached out with the help of the web through searches, Facebook groups, etc., and I gained the knowledge that is necessary for me to wrap my head around my fears:

So many writers have these limiting thoughts, but does it stop them from writing, anyway?

Well…it’s a choice and a decision they get to make. And it’s a choice and a decision YOU get to make with your desires, too.

It’s Completely Natural & Normal

It’s completely natural and normal to have your fears. It’s completely normal for you to have ALL your thoughts, even the limiting ones. But, what you CHOOSE to do with them…this makes or breaks your success.

I took my fearful thoughts, I gained knowledge around the subject at hand, thus I was able to UNDERSTAND that I’m human, this is natural, this is completely normal.

And because I made this empowering decision, I was able to use my previous question of “how cool would it be to be a #1 best-seller” and turn it into an EMPOWERING MANTRA of:

I AM the #1 best-seller!

Keep in mind, this was a year ago when I published Don’t Feel Stuck! But, because of my DAILY mantra of writing it out and saying to myself, “I AM the #1 best-seller”, I was able to imprint this driven thought into a belief.

How is it a belief if we don’t “see” it yet?

Well, we don’t see with our eyes, we see with our minds. Our eyes are window panes, like projection screens, and our minds are the projectors (the hardware).

When was the last time you did some “spring cleaning” and sprayed some Windex onto your projector lens AND projector screen?

Release Your Fear & Manifast: Manifest Faster!

Journal Girl Jaclyn

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I have one more opening for 1:1 mentoring with me that range from 1 months to 3 months (you pick). Why not take 2019 and turn it into “2019: I’m-A-Total-King/Queen with using the Law of Attraction!”

Become a Master Manifaster and make the Universe work WITH you in Manifasting ALL your desires, dreams, and goals, both in your business and in your life.

We are not promised tomorrow, we only have today.

It’s time to SLAY!

How Do You Respond When Your Money Fears Emerge?

 

I am laughing at myself. Note to self: Don’t stay up most of the night and get 6 hours of sleep several days in a row. My fears from 1 YEAR AGO crept up to the surface last night and how I chose to respond was to say:

WTF!? Oh well, fuck it! I’m still going to be ME 100% because not everyone can handle my BADASSERY.

And then some awesome souls informed me that Facebook has, indeed, made even more bogus changes to their platform. Again (but this time, let’s chant it in unison because it applies to ALL of us AMAZING souls):

WTF!? Oh well, fuck it! I’m still going to be ME 100% because not everyone can handle my BADASSERY.

Note: the above affirmation makes for a great Mastering Manifasting journaling exercise!

THOSE PESKY FEARS

 

We all have several hundreds of thousands of fears and worries. And most of them revolve around a central theme having to do with self-worth and acceptance.

Yeah, we like to be original and authentic and STAND OUT from the masses. Nonetheless, we still want to be included because it’s part of being human. It’s innate, it’s biology, it’s mammal-like. It’s SCIENCE.

But, how do you respond when those pesky fears come buzzing around you again (but in a different angle to try and mask your central fear theme)?

Really. How do you CHOOSE to respond? Do you shoo it away? Do you scream and stomp and cry and cry out, “woe is me!” How do you RESPOND?

For example, last night I had a self pity-party for about 30 minutes and decided to “air out” my fears through my own transparency on Facebook.

I had a fear 1 year ago that when my financial success would come into play I would lose the very same souls I want to help because I feared they would no longer think I am “one of them.” This was a money block I was detaching from and releasing for most of 2018.

HOLY SHIFT! Have I leveled the fuck UP in the past 2 months! 2 MONTHS! I went from constantly thinking, “receiving money is hard” to now thinking, “eh, money is money, it’s whatever! It loves me and I love it and it doesn’t mean I’m selfish, or greedy, or shallow (insert whatever else negative vibes people associate to money energy).”

I used to think that in order to be successful in helping others I would have to suffer WITH them, but at the same time lead by example to level UP out of the struggle as a whole.

Now, I realize this “struggle” and “suffer” concept needs to hit the road, bye Felicia! Thank you, NEXT!

One can STILL lead and help all of the AMAZING souls on this planet AND continue to receive financial blessings because we are spiritual hustlers (we kick ASS 24/7 being in flow and alignment with the Universe SERVING the Universe and SERVING humanity).

Money is an exchange of energy and that’s all it is.

I KNOW this. I was ALLOWING my fears in 2018 around money control me and keep me feeling stuck.

As soon as I literally let it go and released my fears and worry about “what would others think of me if I receive huge financial blessings?” BAM! My financial blessings emerged within 2 weeks! Seriously.

FEAR IS FEAR, BUT YOU DECIDE

 

We will never be able to be fully free from our fears. This is just something that will NEVER happen. It is what it is and this is just the way it’s going to be. So accept it. Embrace that it is.

BUT…

You get to DECIDE how you CHOOSE to respond to your fears. Like last night, I decided to have a self pity-party for 30 minutes or so. And then I went to bed (really late) and woke up this morning laughing when these amazing souls told me about the Facebook changes. Haha! Insert human eye-roll.

Everything happens for a reason and for your soul’s HIGHEST happiness. I was defiant last night and I’m still defiant today:

My fear of worrying others will think I am no longer one of them because of my financial blessings is really just that.

It’s JUST a fear and worry.


I am still me, I still have my morals, and I still have my purpose-work. And I still WANT to serve the Universe and humanity. And I am STILL giving back to charities and organizations. I AM me, 100%. Take it or leave it.

Money is a byproduct of listening to your soul’s calling and doing your purpose-work. Money is the whipped cream topping on your sundae life. Money is just paper, or it’s a chocolate bar, or it’s an orgasm, it’s WHATEVER and HOWEVER you CHOOSE it to be.

ACKNOWLEDGE YOUR FEAR AND RELEASE

 

Whenever you have a fear or worry buzzing around you, acknowledge it’s there and move on. Focus on what you WANT to focus on because it’s just that: it’s JUST a fear and worry. Nothing more. Nothing concrete. Not even tangible. It’s a thought and that’s all it is. Don’t give it more power than necessary.

I know you are a mammal and it’s mammal-like, but acknowledge it and RELEASE it. Let it go. Let it pass through you. ALLOW your good-feeling and happy thoughts to permeate throughout your entire soul!

Let yourself radiate, let yourself shine, and let yourself be 100% YOU because YOU matter, beautiful soul!

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It’s time to CLEAR OUT what is no longer serving you around your mental money blocks. I was able to release my money shit in 2018 and I got myself out of $29K debt SO FAST! Now it’s YOUR turn to receive ALL your financial success. You’ve got this! Your soul will thank you.

Have a beautiful weekend!

Release Your Fear & Manifast: Manifest Faster!

Journal Girl Jaclyn

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