When You Feel Defeated As Fuck & You Want To Give In

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These past two days have been ROUGH on me mentally and emotionally. Normally I am a HUGE hustler, but in all honesty I feel I have been run over by an 18-wheeler and I feel defeated as fuck being an entrepreneur right now.

I started my business almost a year ago and while I have accomplished a LOT this past year, I still sometimes suffer from the comparison syndrome: I keep looking around at all these people who seem to have it all together online in their businesses and I ask myself, “how am I different? How can I help thousands of souls all around the world AND BE DIFFERENT? How do I stand out from this crowded cyberspace?”

Then I got a kick in the ass from my multi-millionaire business coach and she gave me the mental shaking I needed to receive: even if I didn’t have this business, even if I didn’t make a single penny doing my soul’s purpose work, would it REALLY make a difference?

This brings me to the point at hand: what is your SOUL telling you?

Strip away the online fakeness that tends to circulate and have us feeling like we aren’t doing enough in our own lives. Strip away those negative voices in our heads telling us we “aren’t good enough”. And yes, even strip away that green ink on paper we call money- a lot of people online pretend to have a lot of money anyway. Note: I said “pretend”.

I was actually feeling sorry for myself yesterday. I was having a bit of a pity party because I PRIDE myself in being honest. I PRIDE myself in being real. And I PRIDE myself in working my ass off in life. But I will swallow my pride and tell you I lost touch with my soul yesterday. My EGO came to the surface. I was whining and complaining to myself, to my business coach, and to my own boyfriend. I was feeling so fucking sorry for myself. And what did it do for me?

Absolutely nothing other than keep me submerged within a negative vortex. I got my much needed reality check today and I realize now that THIS IS ALL part of THE PROCESS. What I didn’t realize until now is that I was meant to go through this downward spiral for almost 24 hours because I AM SHEDDING fearful thoughts and beliefs that no longer serve my soul for its highest happiness in life.

I feel like a snake shedding my dead skin. I feel like I’m slithering out of my old and limiting thoughts and beliefs because I am LETTING GO and RELEASING what is holding me back from a mental and emotional standpoint. How CAN I grow and evolve as a soul if I continue to hold on to what NO LONGER serves me for my soul’s highest purpose? How CAN I do my soul’s purpose work if I, myself, don’t grow and evolve as a human being?

I realize now that I’m completely NORMAL and I’m completely HUMAN. When I listen to what my soul is telling me, it’s telling me that it’s okay to shed these fearful and limiting thoughts, and it’s okay to sometimes have internally downward moments, and that what I was currently thinking and feeling is coming to the surface so that I CAN grow and evolve even MORE SO into my version 2.0 badass superhero that I KNOW (my SOUL KNOWS) I am and beginning to show in life.

This time last year I was super scared to be on audio or video. Now I am frequently doing both, kicking my fears to the curb, and I AM helping thousands of souls all around the world every day. Whether or not I make a cent from it…that’s truly up to the Universe of WHEN and HOW. Yes, I CHOOSE to ALLOW IN monetary wealth, but my soul truly feels if I weren’t even making a cent doing what I’m doing, well fuck it, I’d STILL be doing this anyway because it’s a HELL YES for me within my soul! I’m MEANT to be publishing books to help so many souls in this world, I’m MEANT to be blogging like a badass, I’m MEANT to be mentoring and coaching so many of my soul-based, soulmate souls because this is what I’m CALLED to do in my life.

My question for you is: what is your SOUL telling YOU?

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And furthermore, are you FOLLOWING what your soul is craving? These kinds of growing pains are perfectly normal to have. It’s perfectly normal for me to have fears around leveling up and around investing even MORE into my business. I’m recording my audiobook of Don’t Feel Stuck! this weekend. I’m also editing my second book right now. Yes, I still have cyber fright (kind of like stage fright, but in the cyber world) despite the fact that my book has helped thousands of people. What if my second book doesn’t do as well?

No matter what we are all feeling and thinking, we must ALWAYS mentally have a “wake-up” call and ask ourselves: what is our SOUL telling US? Are we following our soul’s calling? Because if we are not, and we are making choices based out of FEAR, we are going to REMAIN feeling STUCK in our lives and we will merely be paralyzed while time continues to tick on and we grow older.

This is what’s truly defeating (staying stuck and stagnant in our lives due to fears). Most of what we fear doesn’t even come “true” anyway, unless we give a lot of power and focus TO IT.

So keep going! You are doing so much better than you realize! And no, I’m not a robot: I’m just like you and I have my “shit” moments as well. It’s a choice in how we CHOOSE to respond to these moments for the long-run. What is our soul telling us?

My soul is saying: keep going, Babe. You’ve got this!

And I KNOW you can keep going and you’ve got this, too. Follow your soul, keep plugging away at your dreams because one day you will look back and say to yourself: thank gosh I didn’t give up! Keep showing the Universe what your soul truly wants! Have your crying fit and pick yourself back up because you ARE a total badass at life. You’ve got this!

 

 

Carpe Diem!

Journal Girl Jaclyn

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– a brand new car for free (of my choosing)

– a brand new washer/dryer set for free (of my choosing)

– an extra $4K in cash received

– a majorly positive shift in my work with the physicists

– my name credited in a short film narrated by Tilda Swinton and with music by George Lucas’s company

– becoming 17 lbs lighter (I reached 20 so far)

– publishing my first book that has sold HUNDREDS of copies so far

– starting my own now thriving business

– receiving my soulmate and ideal relationship after being super single for 9 years prior

– and there is more, but I can’t even think right now!

I’m going to sign up for my own program so I can kick my current fears to the curb! No sense in allowing them to linger around any longer. Carpe diem! Time to seize the day like the badass I KNOW I am! And you CAN manifest ANYTHING YOU WANT, too! I’m here to help kick your spiritual ass into gear because if I could do it (super stubborn me), then I KNOW you can do it, too! Say it with me: Bye bye fears, go fuck yourself because you are no longer welcomed into my soul’s sphere. You’ve got this! See you in the program!

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You Change Your Underwear, So Why Not Make Changes In Your Life, Too?

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Hey Sensational Soul!

When I was a teenager I absolutely loathed change. I feared it to the point of emotional and mental shut-down. I literally went through my days trying to “keep” all of my surroundings within my environment the same. How exhausting! Honestly, though, this is what I truly attempted.

I went through something extremely traumatic (something I had NO control over) and so my teenage mind felt the only way I could “survive/function”was to try and control my environment and keep everything around me “the same” in order to remain in my comfort zone.

Did it work? HELL NO! Change still came out ahead.

While I wasn’t able to embrace change in my younger years because I literally FEARED it so much, I realize now (as an adult) change is something that brings WONDERFUL blessings into our lives.

Let’s Be Honest, Nothing Lasts Forever

Can you remember a time when something lasted forever? While the unknown can produce anxiety, the unknown can also produce BLESSINGS that are completely beyond anything you can comprehend. Really?

REALLY.

Last year when I did my mindset journaling every single day, literally 99% of everything I wanted to manifest actually DID manifest in the SAME year. And you know how I did it? I surrendered to the Universe’s timing and its “how”. I made the choice to TRUST and BELIEVE that the Universe is ALWAYS working FOR me, and I took a HUGE leap of faith in doing this. Yes, it was scary- at first.

Up until last year I still allowed my fears and anxiety to take hold of my life. Was I happy? No. Was I exhausted? Yes. In addition, I was cranky, doubtful, and just plain desperate. So I “gave up” in that I COMPLETELY surrendered to the Universe and put my full trust into it.

My Realization

What I didn’t realize is that this IS the key for your manifestations to appear into the physical realm! Holy CRAP did I have a Eureka moment!

So I journaled every single day with complete CONVICTION. I journaled out my new reality as IS in the present and how THANKFUL I was to already have it, be it, and living in it. I did this DAILY with complete conviction, no matter what happened in my day. I COMMITTED to at least 10 minutes in my day, per day, to shifting my mindset and my emotions.

Through repetition, ALL but 1 thing manifested IN the SAME year! No joke!

You Change Your Underwear, So Why Not Make Changes In Your Life, Too?

Embrace change, the Universe IS working FOR you and it DOES have your back! I promise you this! Release, surrender, have complete faith, take the chance, STOP TRYING TO CONTROL everything around you, and practice, practice, practice your mindset work on a DAILY basis because you DO shift your mindset into a more trusting, positive, open, allowing, and peaceful place. The Universe WILL follow and blessings WILL start coming into your physical realm- and sooner than you realize!

In addition, your fears and anxieties start to pass through you because you realize YOU are in control of your thoughts and your feelings. It’s SO EMPOWERING! I am telling you, this stuff totally works!

Change IS a good thing, it may have taken me many years to come to this realization; but, it’s NEVER “too late” to take your life back, take back your power, and start ALLOWING blessings beyond your comprehension to manifest into your physical realm FOR you!

You End Up Empowering YOUrself

I’ve had many souls already leave testimonial messages and reviews on my Facebook page and Amazon page expressing how their lives ARE changing for the better now. I’m SO happy for everyone!

Don’t allow your fears and anxieties keep you locked up in your life. YOU have the power, YOU have the keys, YOU have the ability to CHANGE your life for the better by learning how to work WITH the Universe. I believe in you! You can do this!

PS- I took everything I did through my mindset work last year and put these methods and prompts into THIS JOURNAL WORKBOOK so that I can spread the knowledge, share the wealth, and help YOU to embrace change, too.

Carpe Diem!

Journal Girl Jaclyn

Want To Uplevel Your Life? Uplevel Your Environment: It’s Version 2.0 Time!

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Hey Sensational Soul!

Today I want to propose to you an idea revolving around upleveling your life. We all have life goals and dreams we want to achieve! Regardless of what they are, in order to uplevel to the next version of yourself, sometimes it’s really great to uplevel your environment and surroundings as well.

What do I mean by this? I mean like when you were a kid and your parents told you to go “clean your room”- but this time I mean your home!

We are working on aligning to your next-version self, your 2.0 version self, so becoming your next-version self involves not only aligning in a mental state, but also in areas of which you spend the majority of your time on a DAILY basis. Daily positive mindset, daily positive environment! YES! I’m talking to YOU!

This Is How I Manifested $4K In CASH Last Year!

If you are aligning to receive more money, get your wallet out and throw away old receipts, organize it, put some dollars in there (doesn’t matter on the amount), and get clear about your money goal. How can you invite more money to flow into your life if you keep old receipts that are no longer for your needs?

A clean and organized wallet will not only help you to feel more at ease about your wallet in general, but it will allow for more abundance to flow into your wallet! The point is, you gotta FEEL abundant- and opening your clean wallet to feel those dollar bills against your finger tips will help you to FEEL more prosperous and abundant! Feeling a bunch of receipts won’t make you FEEL abundant- it will remind you of expenses, not of profits (unless it’s a deposit slip!).

What About Your Closet and Your Garage?

Do you have old clothes that you no longer wear? Clear them out! How can you invite a marriage you truly want if you take up ALL of the space in your closet? Clear out the old clothes and shoes, and make a nice space for your “spouse”. If you want newer, more expensive clothes, you still need to clear out the “old” to make way for the newer threads!

What about your garage? Yes, don’t think I was going to fail to mention the number 1 junk space. Are you wanting a new car? Or, do you expect that when you get married there will be more cars? Tidy up the garage, throw out the old stuff that no longer serves you so that you can align to your next-version self! And even clearing out the older stuff will make more room for your “spouse’s” car (it will fit in so nicely with that extra space).

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Tidy Up

Look around your home and locate where you spend the majority of your time. Tidy it up, clean it up, make it look and FEEL more like your version 2.0 self because you have to start aligning to it. The Universe won’t know to help bring it into your life if you are constantly living in the past- and I do mean this metaphorically AND literally when I say this.

It’s good to align yourself as if it’s already in the present because when the Universe brings it to you, it will feel like, “Oh yeah, I was hoping for that!” This is partly how to manifest your life goals!

Look at it this way: a completed puzzle represents your life goal. Start putting the pieces together and don’t worry about HOW you will get to the last piece of the puzzle. Just relax and trust that by aligning the pieces together the universe IS helping you to complete the puzzle with that last piece. Don’t worry about how it will get finished, just start doing and taking the inspired action on a daily basis!

Your Focus

Remember, you can’t focus on, “Well, once I have it THEN I’ll be happy.” You have to start doing things and FEELING happy in the present to invite MORE abundance and prosperity into your life! Enjoy the journey of putting the puzzle pieces together– it wouldn’t be called a hobby if people didn’t like putting the pieces together. So relax, clear out your literal space so you can be more calm and at ease within your surroundings as you align mentally with upleveling your life. One clears off a table to begin putting a puzzle together, clear off your “table” so the Universe can help you to complete the puzzle that IS your life goal. It’s happening!

The Universe Is ALWAYS Working FOR You!

Once you start feeling abundant in all areas of your life by clearing out what no longer serves you, you’re open to receive your life’s goals and dreams– and sometimes the Universe delivers even MORE than what you expect!

Are you struggling to stay in a more positive belief state? I am sharing techniques that helped me to rid of my anxiety and manifest some of my own life goals that I NOW have accomplished! Grab your spot! Are you READY to start manifesting more and more abundance into YOUR life!? I’m SO excited to HELP YOU!!!

Carpe Diem!

Journal Girl Jaclyn

What Are You Calling In: Fears Or Universal Magical Goodness? Disclosure Alert

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Hey Sensational Soul,

As I sit on my comfy, dark purple, velvety-like couch, I am sort of shaking while typing this out. I made a big investment today into my business. And I’m SCARED. On top of that, my Mom called me and was talking to me for about 15 to 20 minutes about money and how it relates to her life. Oh my gosh, I am SCARED even more so now.

While I AM Acknowledging My Fears, I Am CHOOSING To Not Dwell On Them

What are my fears? I’m in debt and I’m growing my business, which puts me even MORE in debt. Yes, I donate to animal charities on a monthly basis; but, I am spending 90% of my transactions on my business right now. I’m scared shitless. The other 10% go to my already existing debt and to my bills. I have literally no money right now for anything.

I made the transaction today that I have been wanting to make for a while…my eyes have turned into “I Love Lucy” eyes for the past 5 hours.

Oh My Gosh…All Of My Fearful Thoughts Are Creeping Up To The Surface:

– What if this is the wrong move?

– What if I am now even further in debt and I never get out of it?

– What if I’m not seen as good enough to others who want to change their lives for the better, and they don’t take my online programs, buy my published book, or even purchase my upcoming book?

– What if everything I AM doing from my soul’s purpose, my soul’s drive, my soul’s craving, and my soul’s PASSION doesn’t work out?

((Smacks Self!))

Time to wake up and snap out of it, Jaclyn! By continuing to ALLOW my scarcity mindset, my fearful mindset, and my limiting mindset, I am continuing to call in:

– A continued poor/poverty mindset for myself

– Staying in debt because I’m too scared to level UP (magic happens outside of the comfort zone)

– Let more and more time go by continuing to live inside of my own made-up mental box of limits

– NOT truly live and truly do what my soul is CALLING me to do

– Continuing to make decisions and live from my fears, anxieties, stress, worries, and every other limiting mindset word known in the dictionary

So…

From now on I’m CHOOSING to live in faith that everything IS working out FOR me. I may not know the specifics of “how” and “when”, but I’ve been in this position before with other things and everything worked out way BETTER than I could have ever imagined. I must keep the faith!

From now on I’m CHOOSING to take chances, take inspired actions outside of my comfort zone because being uncomfortable IS where the magical goodness from the Universe DOES happen.

And from now on I’m CHOOSING to have a mindset of limitless abundance, limitless blessings, limitless OWNING my own badass, empress superpowers because I AM impacting SO MANY BEAUTIFUL souls all around the world and this IS my TRUE calling. I wake up every day excited to help more and more souls!!!

I Am 35, I Do Not Want To Wake Up At 65 And Wonder What The Hell Happened To My Life. – Journal Girl Jaclyn

Where did it go?? Why has all of this time passed and I’m STILL feeling STUCK in this world!? No way, no how! This ain’t happenin!

What Are YOU Choosing To Do? What Are YOU Calling In? Fears, Or Universal Magical Goodness?

It’s perfectly OKAY to have moments of weakness, it’s part of human nature. You get to CHOOSE if you want it to unpack and live rent-free within your mind.

You get to CHOOSE if you want other people’s fears to influence your own fears. You get to CHOOSE what you want to FOCUS on and call in from the Universe.

And you get to CHOOSE how you RESPOND to situations rather than react from them.

I Choose To Respond

Okay, so this is pretty scary right now; but, I KNOW the Universe has my back because the Universe is going to take care of the “how” for me. I am going to continue to take inspired actions, and I’m going to continue to SURRENDER to the Universe’s divine timing and the way. It’s worked for everything else in my life, it IS working for my business.

I have seen, first-hand, how many AMAZING souls have SHIFTED their mindset and their lives to the BETTER by working with me and taking my programs! I KNOW what I’m talking about and what I’m doing!

I’m here to impact THOUSANDS of AMAZING souls all over the world to HELP them live their own lives through their highest happiness possible.

It’s decided! DONE! Poof! Fears be gone!

((extra “poof!” just in case one is around the corner))

Carpe Diem!

Journal Girl Jaclyn

Are YOU Making Excuses? Yeah, I’m Talking To YOU!

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Hi Sensational Souls!

I wasn’t going to write until tomorrow, but I felt called to produce this NOW. I feel someone is needing to read this:

Are you making excuses about your life? Do you want to change jobs? Write a book? Take that trip? Get a divorce? Get married? Have a baby? Own your own business? Lose weight? Pay off your debt? I could go on…

Take a look around you and review your peer situation. Are you spending the majority of your time with loving, encouraging, and supportive family and friends? What about your spouse? What about your coworkers on your lunch break? Are you seriously spending your energy around people who lift you up? Or, are you draining your own self-love and energy around people who are negative and make you feel small in this world?

You are NOT small! Stop playing small! We are NOT guaranteed tomorrow, we only have today. So, if you read this and you think about all of your friends, family members, your spouse, your coworkers, and they leave you feeling uninspired, holy SHIFT it’s time to make some EMPOWERING changes in your life! Make sure you surround yourself with encouraging people, not those who think small and play on your fears. This can enable your excuses to continue. It’s SO IMPORTANT to understand this.

And guess what? It starts with YOU. Only you have the keys to unchain yourself from your negative Nellys. Only you have the power to start taking positive and self-loving steps into a new and positive journey that you SO DESERVE to be on. Whether you are in your 20’s, 30’s, 40’s, 50’s, 60’s, 70’s, etc., you are ALLOWED to be happy in your life!

Start reading empowering books, join empowering Facebook groups, find a mentor, join hobby groups (both online and offline), there are SO MANY resources out in the world to HELP you on your soul’s truest journey.

There is no need to make any more excuses, the only thing holding you back is YOU

It’s not your money, it’s not your time, it’s not your job, it’s YOU (in other words, your fears, your worries, your anxiety, your stress, etc). YOU are holding yourself back. Why are you playing small? We are NOT promised tomorrow, so start taking your power back right NOW.

You CAN do this. I totally believe in you! Start with baby steps, and keep going with these steps every single day towards your life’s goals. Or, if you feel more comfortable in doing so, take bigger leaps. The CHOICE is up to you and the Universe IS working behind the scenes to help rearrange things on your path in order to propel you towards your desired end-results. Forget about all the details of the “how” and “when”, just move towards your life’s goals because the journey feels GOOD to you. The Universe is taking care of the “how” and “when”, leave all the specific timeline details up to the Universe. Just go forth trusting the process, surrendering to the Universe, and taking inspired actions on your journey because it feels GOOD to you. THIS is true living. And you so deserve it!

This is how you know it’s your soul’s calling. This is how you know this is your soul’s purpose: it feels GOOD to you and you feel at one and at peace with the world and the Universe. It moves you and motivates you to get up every day and keep going. It moves you and motivates you to make a positive impact in the world. And you ARE a gift to this world, each and every one of us is a huge gift to the world. We ALL have a purpose and part of our purpose is being happy while on our journey. In addition, part of our purpose is being around positive support systems with other positive souls. Get rid of the negative from any and every direction. Life is TOO short to settle. Life is TOO short to continue down a negative mindset path. Life is TOO short to live in feelings of emptiness and in feelings of being stuck.

What are you waiting for? The time is NOW. We are not promised tomorrow, we only have today. You CAN do this!

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Carpe Diem!

Journal Girl Jaclyn

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What If You Are Meant For MORE!?

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What if you were meant for MORE? What if you were meant to BE more? What if you were meant for MORE than you realize in life? What if you are holding yourself back because you don’t realize WHO you are meant to BE? What if you are holding yourself back because you don’t realize you ARE meant for SO MUCH MORE!?

Close your eyes for a few minutes and FEEL into your gut, your soul: your communication channel with your intuition and the Universe. This is the communication channel of HOW you ARE manifesting abundance into your new reality. This is HOW you apply the law of attraction and speed up your manifestations through Mastering Your Mindset!

Ask yourself while performing the following empowering mindset journaling:

If I could be ANYONE right now in life, who would I be?

What kind of characteristics would I have as my version 2.0 self?

What kind of passions would I have in life?

What kind of past times would I dive into in as my next-level self?

Who are the people I would surround myself with?

What kind of clothes would I be wearing each day?

What would I be doing in order to serve and give back to the Universe and to humanity/beings on this earth?

What would I be doing in order to BRING purpose to my life every day?

What makes me wake up and get out of bed each day?

Go DEEPER!

As my version 2.0 self, what would the majority of my feelings and emotions be?

As my version 2.0 self, what would the majority of my thoughts be?

As my version 2.0 self, what would the majority of my responses to life situations be?

As my version 2.0 self, what would the majority of my ACTIONS be each day?

As my version 2.0 self, what would I be doing NEXT now that I AM my version 2.0 self?

This IS You!

Now that you KNOW who you really ARE, BE him/her! Think, feel, and act AS him/her! Go DO as him/her! SHOW the Universe what you truly desire, emit those POWERFUL vibrations from your tiny, fast-moving particles into the Universe and influence your soul’s NEW reality as the deliberate creator that you ARE!

The Universe IS listening and IS responding to you, what you FOCUS on EXPANDS. So SHOW the Universe what you truly desire and be consistent in thinking, feeling, and acting FROM your version 2.0 place! TRAIN your mindset, TRAIN your feelings, TRAIN your actions, BE consistent, DAILY. This is HOW you apply the law of attraction. This is HOW you are manifesting abundance- and you ARE!

Keep It Handy

Refer to your mindset journaling from today to refresh your feelings and manifest your vibrations again and again into the Universe! THEN? Then, surrender to the Universe knowing what you desire IS manifesting!It IS manifesting right now- surrender to the “how” and the “when”- the Universe knows the perfect, divine timing!

You CAN do this! I totally believe in you! If I could do it, me: the stubborn and deeply-rooted, over-analytical soul, I KNOW you can do it! You CAN do this! You’ve totally got this!

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Carpe Diem!

Journal Girl Jaclyn