The Biggest Lesson I Learned in Love

 

Hey Sensational Soul!

Valentine’s Day is tomorrow and I want to share with you the biggest lesson I learned in the realm of love. I feel like someone needs to read this:

The biggest lesson I learned in love is that no matter how hard you try to get another to accept you, love you, and approve of you, you’re still going to need to learn how to love yourself first and foremost.

Only when you love yourself COMPLETELY is when healthy, authentic love from another soul magically comes flying into your physical realm.

Loving yourself completely means accepting all of you with gentle care. Even the traits you may not be too fond of, learn to embrace them. Or, change because YOU want to change for your OWN growth and for your OWN happiness. Never change who you are to please another. Only change if you want to change for YOURSELF.

The right souls are magnetically drawn to you when you embrace yourself 100% with your own self-love.

You are enough. You are MORE than enough. You are a facet that helps to make up this gem we call “earth”. You are needed. You ARE loved. And you ARE worthy of receiving your most IDEAL relationship.

When your soul is ready, your mate will appear.

Have faith in the Universe and trust the process. And have a WONDERFUL day tomorrow! Fill yourself up with love and let it all vibrate from your soul’s core. I appreciate you and I totally believe in you!

Release Your Fear & Manifast: Manifest Faster!

Journal Girl Jaclyn

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Do You Settle in Love?

Hey Sensational Soul!

I remember when I used to allow totally different treatment when it came to love. I used to feel as if I wasn’t “good enough” unless a man loved and accepted me. Granted, I was really young when I felt this way; nonetheless, I didn’t truly figure it ALL out until my early 30’s.

I was 26 when I decided I was “done” with men and relationships and spent almost a decade learning more about myself- mainly because I was terrified of getting hurt again by another man. I did, however, grow STRONGER in my self-love, my faith in the Universe, and when I was ready to call in my IDEAL relationship, I did it within 10 months!

I did my Mastering Manifasting journaling DAILY, even if I had challenging days. I never put it off, even if I journaled for only 5 minutes. I journaled with conviction everything I wanted in my soulmate and best friend. I journaled everything I wanted in my IDEAL relationship.

And I spent those 10 months having 100% faith in the process because in the Law of Attraction, you gotta surrender to the Universe’s timing and its how.

There are beliefs about love we tend to hold on to because of what happened in our past.

And sometimes we don’t even realize we are still holding on to them! We think we have our beliefs in the way we WANT to have them about love, but then when we are faced with decisions in love we sometimes go the opposite way for fear of getting hurt again. And sometimes we make decisions because it’s easier, more familiar, and safer.

But Does This Mean We Are Settling in Love?

When I performed my Mastering Manifesting journaling in setting my love and ideal relationship intentions every single day, I was able to ask myself a series of questions to help me discover, uncover, and then release what I no longer wanted to hold on to in my love beliefs. And then I established and anchored in my version 2.0 BADASS Master Manifaster self in LOVE!

For example, I always knew and understood that human beings aren’t perfect. However, because I wanted to look at the most positive things and focus on those in everyone, I was at the same time compromising my own self-respect and healthy boundaries that need to be in place in order to draw in healthy and supportive energy from others.

And I didn’t even realize HOW MUCH I was doing this before I started calling in my soulmate and ideal relationship.

Below is an excerpt from my brand new journal workbook, Don’t Feel Stuck in Love! Journaling Methods to Transform Your Mindset & Manifest Your Ideal Relationship, now available on Amazon!

Journal out the following:

1) True or false. For each of these statements answer whether it is true or false and why you feel it to be so.

• I believe the Universe/God/the angels are on my side. Why or why not?
• I am completely okay with being human and knowing I am not perfect. Why or why not?
• I believe the romantic partner I am currently manifesting is completely accepting of me as an imperfect human being. Why or why not?
• I believe my romantic partner IS on his/her way to my physical realm. Why or why not?

What Is It For You??

I wanna know! Reply to this email and tell me what you discovered in the above prompts. I always love to hear people’s success stories through self-discoveries and with their manifestations.

Manifestations are both in big and small events. So, celebrate yourself in EVERYTHING you discover, uncover, and DECIDE what you CHOOSE to continue to hold on to in your beliefs or release. Either way, you deserve to celebrate yourself because you ARE steps closer to your IDEAL relationship! It’s part of becoming a Master Manifaster in everything in your life, including in LOVE.

SO EXCITING!

PS- I’m offering FREE, EXCLUSIVE training to guide you throughout Don’t Feel Stuck in Love! and below is how to get access to it for over the course of 4 weeks! I cannot wait to help empower you as YOU manifest YOUR soulmate/twinflame and ideal relationship! See you in the training!

Release Your Fear & Manifast: Manifest Faster!

Journal Girl Jaclyn

The Secret to the Law of Attraction in Love

Some days I still have to pinch myself. I went from being single for 9 years to receiving my SOULMATE and IDEAL relationship within 10 months of setting my manifesting intentions in love! He came into my life a little over a year ago and things are getting better and better between us.

How Did I Do It?

Read the secret to the Law of Attraction in love below:

▪ Every single day I did my Mastering Manifasting journaling. Whether my day was a good day or a bad day, I COMMITTED to doing my manifesting journaling every single day.

▪ I set my intentions by writing as if he ALREADY was in my life and our relationship was ALREADY in existence. I wrote as IS in the present and/or I wrote as if it already happened.

▪ During each day when I wasn’t performing my Manifasting journaling I would relax, trust, and BELIEVE that he was on his way to me. I completely surrendered to the Universe’s timing and the “how” he would come into my life in the physical realm.

▪ I spent a few times per day and took the time to VISUALIZE he and I together. Whether we were hanging out at home, out at bookstores, the symphony, museums, in Europe, wherever and whatever we were doing, I took a couple of times per day and spent between 3-5 minutes visualizing him and our relationship already in existence.

Here is an Example of My Mastering Manifasting Journaling

My soulmate is so sweet, super freaking intelligent, funny as hell, witty, romantic, honest, extremely loyal, logical and sensitive with a good head on his shoulders, positive disposition, responsible, caring, likes animals, and is always open with his communication towards me (and I towards him).
He is older, European, has passion for his job in scientific research, abundant in all ways, loves to travel, and we are best friends first and foremost. He understands I sometimes like to be alone and I understand his need for space as well. We love to talk about science, history, psychology, poetry, philosophy, and we can talk for hours. He and I have such an amazing relationship because we mesh so well together as best friends who are in love with each other.

Sometimes we go to bookstores during the weekends and sometimes we like to stay at home and watch movies. We like to frequent the symphony and we LOVE to travel, especially to Europe. We love to learn about different cultures around the world and we both have such a passion for helping humanity and animals. We love to give back to humanity and to the Universe by serving through donations, helping organizations for science and medical research, and we can literally talk for hours. We mesh SO WELL together!

Thank you, thank you, thank you, Universe, God, and the angels for bringing us together! I fully surrender and trust that the Universe will bring me exactly who I want, or someone even BETTER is coming into my physical realm- and soon. Thank you SO VERY MUCH!

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And this is exactly how I would perform my Mastering Manifasting journaling each day. Some days I would mix it up in the details, but this is the overall journaling I performed with setting my intentions into the Universe. And then I would relax, do things that please me, and just KNOW he was on his way to me.

And Guess What!? He IS This Person!

He is 99% of what I would write down every single day- and I am SO VERY BLESSED! I went from 9 years of being single and constantly thinking, “I will never find him” and “it is so hard for me to be able to find him”, to this past year thanking the Universe every single day for literally manifesting him into my physical realm! And our relationship is EXACTLY how I visualized it to be!

Believe Me: Your Soulmate & Ideal Relationship IS Out There!

You either receive EXACTLY what you want; OR, someone even BETTER is coming FOR you! All you have to do is BELIEVE and SURRENDER to the Universe’s timing and the “how”.

Performing this kind of visualization journaling is such a POWERFUL tool in manifesting! So, keep doing your Mastering Manifasting journaling EVERY SINGLE DAY! Relax, trust, believe, surrender, and watch how fast you receive your new reality in LOVE!

PS- In honor of Valentine’s Day and my brand new journal workbook, Don’t Feel Stuck in Love!, I’m launching FREE, EXCLUSIVE video guidance training with ME over the course of 4 weeks delivered straight into your inbox! That’s right! Just copy and paste your Amazon order number into the sign-up template and BOOM! You’re in, and we can start working together in speeding UP your LOVE manifestations!

I’m SO EXCITED for you! You’ve got this, Sensational Soul!

Release Your Fear & Manifast: Manifest Faster!

Journal Girl Jaclyn

Do You Want REAL Love? Or, Do You Want Control?

Art image by Pocket Art Design.

You know, it’s interesting when you put it all into perspective. I often get asked, “Can you manifest a specific person to you?” And my answer is always, “Everyone has free will, and be glad for this!” Of course, most people ask, “Why?” to which I respond:

How would you like it if YOU were forced to be in a relationship and forced to love someone YOU didn’t want to be committed to and didn’t want to be physical with?

(insert “eck” face when you think of someone you don’t want to be in a relationship with)

When I phrase it like this, then souls reply with something like, “Oh that’s true! I see what you mean.”

But seriously, are you really wanting REAL, equal, fully supportive love? Or, are you just wanting to control the outcome in your love life?

I used to think “real love” meant being in control of the relationship. This was, of course, AFTER being in 3 relationships in which I was BEING controlled all of the time.

REAL love doesn’t mean you are in control. Nor does REAL love mean THEY are in control, either.

REAL love is equal, it’s supportive, it’s full of compromising between BOTH parties, it’s encouraging, it feels safe and positive, it’s open and honest, it’s healthy commitment, and it’s rewarding. It’s a true partnership, a REAL best friendship. It’s REAL love.

Do YOU Want REAL Love?

I know, I know. When you feel IN love it’s a huge rush of intense feelings. Fear is also a similar rush of intense feelings.

Ask yourself these questions in order to DECIDE the most appropriate response for yourself with regards to whether you want REAL love; or, if you really want control (instead):

When I think of the other person, do I want them to be happy, even if it means being without me?
When I think of the other person, do they want ME to be happy, even if it means me not being with them?
When I think of being in my IDEAL relationship, am I making (any) excuses for their behavior if I don’t feel they are supportive or encouraging TO me and/or TO our relationship?
When I think of being in my IDEAL relationship, how do I respond to miscommunication and to life’s challenges we have/will have?
When I think of being in my IDEAL relationship, how do THEY respond to miscommunication and to life’s challenges we have/will have?
When I think of being in my IDEAL relationship, what does commitment look like to me? What all does it entail?
When I think of being in my IDEAL relationship, what does commitment look like to them? What all does it entail for them?
When I think of being in my IDEAL relationship, what does our future look like in the next 5 years? 10 years? 15 years?

These are just a few questions to explore through your Mastering Manifasting journaling around what love really means to you. There is SO MUCH MORE to explore in “shopping” for your ideal relationship. Then, you add your ideal relationship to your cart, click “check-out”, put in your delivery address, and then click “order”.

The”How to” in Manifasting Your Ideal Relationship

After you click “order”, what’s next? You then Master Manifasting even FURTHER by learning HOW to surrender to the Universe’s timing and its “way”. It’s easier than you think, especially because while you “shop” for your IDEAL relationship, you are ALREADY calling your ideal relationshipinto your physical realm.

So the whole process just speeds up without you even realizing it! Yes!

PS- We are in Day 3 of the epic FREE workshopManifesting REAL Love with Ease! It’s not too late for you to hop into the workshop’s Facebook group to start calling in YOUR ideal relationship NOW!

Bonus! There is FREE 4-week training videos for YOU to get access to when you join the workshop! These transforming training videos help guide you along your soul’s journey in Manifasting YOUR ideal relationship with EASE. So what are you waiting for, beautiful!?

See you all tomorrow for Day 4 of the workshop! And if you aren’t in the workshop, see you soon for some more Manifasting tips and tricks from me in Manifasting your IDEAL love, more money, growing your business, and obtaining your authentic happiness in living by your soul’s truest calling! Yes! I’m SO EXCITED for you!

How You Feel About Yourself is WHO You Attract

As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he.- Proverbs 23:7

Hi Sensational Soul!

Happy weekend! I am back from being in 4 different airports within a 24-hour period! It was a good trip and I’m very blessed to be able to go to California and pay respects to a woman I hold very dear to my heart. While there, I saw a few physicists I had previously met when they came to visit in Texas. I will admit, I am exhausted. I do not know how the physicists I work for can travel 85% of the year. But now I am back home and it’s time to continue helping all YOU beautiful souls in the world!

I spent this morning doing my mindset journaling around how our thoughts shape our reality. I think about the Universe and our role in it every single day.

Everything You Experience is Your Perspective

Do you know your hand is an illusion? YES! You are made up of billions of tiny elemental particles that are CONSTANTLY bouncing around throughout the air. We touch our hand and we VIBRATE the tiny particles to move around in a different way.

How AMAZING is this!? So at any given moment we CHANGE how we view what is our “reality”. Push the skin on your hand and it changes the way you view your hand. Go on, do it!

Therefore, you change what you THINK and BELIEVE about what your hand looks like in this moment. When you let go of the skin on your hand, the tiny particles bounce around furthermore and yet, again, change how you view your hand. You change what you deem to be as real.

What You Think About YOURSELF is What You Vibrate Into the World

Your ENERGY is constantly communicating to everyone around you. Your thoughts produce vibrations of the particles that make up your brain matter. Have you ever looked at medical imaging in how the brain is stimulated from thoughts and feelings? It’s phenomenal how all of our tiny, fast-moving particles can produce what we view and deem as “real”. And what you deem about YOURSELF is what you are communicating TO others because of how the Universe responds in its boomerang effect.

You know the saying, birds of a feather flock together.

What do you think about yourself?
How do you feel about yourself?
How are you treating yourself?
What kind of priorities do you have for yourself in your life and on a daily basis?
Are you putting your own love for yourself first? Why or why not?

How you view, feel, and treat yourself IS what you are drawing towards you in other people’s energies. You are consciously and subconsciously communicating to other people’s energies because energy is influenced and shaped by, well, energy!

The Universe Doesn’t Know What is Real & What is Not Real

Your energy you influence through thoughts, feelings, and actions is what the Universe is responding to by giving back to you through its own mirror-like response.

The next time you state, “all the good guys are taken” or “all the good women are already married”, stop and EXAMINE the kinds of thoughts and feelings you ARE producing into the Universe rooted from your mindset.

What you deem to believe is what is given TO you in response.

Are you allowing your SOUL to communicate? Or, are you covering up your SOUL’s truest happiness by allowing your limiting thoughts to rule your life?

Your SOUL is SO READY to follow its path and it IS ready to live life in your truest happiness! You CAN and you ARE worthy of living your life to your fullest potential and have the kind of loving relationships you truly desire!

Think of yourself as like a magnet attracting energy into your physical realm. What kind of energy do you WANT to attract? It all starts with YOU and how you feel about YOURSELF on the inside: your thoughts, your feelings, your belief systems. It’s not too late to BE the kind of energy you want to attract into your physical realm. Remember what I said earlier, at any given moment in time you can take your hand and push the skin on your other hand to change its form, its reality.

And at any given moment in time you can do the SAME with the kind of thoughts you CHOOSE to think, the kind of feelings you CHOOSE to focus on, and the kind of actions you CHOOSE to execute. And what I mean by “actions”, I also mean taking the actions of remaining stagnant in your life. Even these ARE actions that you choose to undergo.

Love yourself. Love WHO you are by being WHO you want to attract into your life. And love yourself every single day. Lead by example. Who do you want to manifest into your life? BE that person, yourself. It’s not too late for you. You CHOOSE at any moment. You CAN choose at any moment.

Are You Ready to Seriously Manifest YOUR Soulmate, YOUR Best Friend, YOUR Twin Flame, YOUR IDEAL Relationship!?

Are you tired of feeling stuck with regards to finding your person?

I’m SO EXCITED! I created this just FOR YOU! I’m offering you FREE, exclusive training over the course of 4 weeks delivered straight to your inbox when you grab your copy of Don’t Feel Stuck in Love! As a thank you, I am guiding you throughout my brand new journal workbook…and I’m helping YOU in manifesting your ideal relationship!

I’m giving you my EXACT Law of Attraction LOVE manifesting methods I used, myself, to manifest my ideal relationship within 10 months-

And now it’s YOUR turn!

To access your FREE 4-week training, grab your copy of Don’t Feel Stuck in Love! , copy and paste your Amazon order below and viola! You’re in, beautiful!

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After being single for 9 years I decided I was ready to call in and manifest the RIGHT kind of relationship I was TRULY desiring. I got SO TIRED of wobbling within my own mindset around struggling, being scared of getting hurt (again), and wondering WHY I hadn’t met my person yet.

I decided to use proven Law of Attraction methods AND experiment on myself with my own cognitive training techniques through the POWERFUL use of Mastering Manifasting journaling…and boom! It totally worked! Getting your mindset into the right frame of mind is HUGE in speeding up your ideal love relationship! This is where my journal workbook and my EXTRA exclusive training comes in!

And if someone like me, stubborn and judgmental, can shift her mindset from scarcity, limiting, and fearful beliefs, then I KNOW you can do this, too! Are you READY!? I cannot wait to guide you throughout this successful process! See you in the FREE 4-week training!

To access your FREE 4-week training, grab your copy of Don’t Feel Stuck in Love! , copy and paste your Amazon order below and boom! You’re in, lovah!

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Have an amazing week ahead and remember…

Release Your Fear & Manifast: Manifest Faster!

Journal Girl Jaclyn