A Rant on Love- And What to Do About It

Have you ever felt like you had NO CLUE what you were doing in the love department? Or maybe you never have any good luck when it comes to love and relationships?

I’m just like you: I spent the majority of my life completely confused about what constitutes a healthy relationship. I spent my teens and my 20’s trying REALLY hard to get people to approve of me, especially my 3 relationships. I even spent my early 30’s trying to attempt approval from the outside.

The majority of my 36 years I spent trying to PLEASE EVERYONE around me. And what did it do for me? Nothing. Well, maybe not nothing. It DID leave me exhausted, irritated, sad, frustrated, confused, feeling unworthy, and completely emotional most of the time.

I was walking on eggshells around…well, myself.

I’m just like you, or maybe the past you. Either way, my point is, some people may look at me and think I’m “higher” up on the totem pole of life when they follow me on social media. I hate to sugarcoat things, so let me just be blunt for a moment:

I AM JUST LIKE YOU. PERIOD.

Even though I no longer allow myself to be in toxic relationships that leave me feeling completely worthless and crazy, it doesn’t mean I still don’t have my “moments”. I am human. I am a total Badass, yes. But, I am just like you; which means YOU are a total Badass as well. And don’t you even deny it because you ARE!

LISTEN TO LEARN MORE!

Release Your Fear & ManiFast!

XOXO Jaclyn

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Trying to Change Another Soul

From The Secret Daily Teachings, by Rhonda Byrne:
Trying to change someone is a waste of time. The very thought of changing someone is saying that they are not good enough as they are, and it is soaked with judgment and disapproval. That is not a thought of appreciation or love, and those thoughts will only bring separation between you and that person. 
You must look for the good in people to have more of it appear. As you look only for the good things in a person, you will be amazed at what your new focus reveals.
The same goes for ANYTHING else you are attracting into your physical realm!
Journal Girl Jaclyn

How Are You with Honest Communication?

You feel something is “off”, but you can’t quite put your finger on it. Your intuition is beeping “alert” at you, but you can’t quite understand why. You KNOW something is wrong, but you don’t know WHAT is wrong.

Have you ever felt this way?

Do you confront the person you feel something is not quite right with? Or, do you keep quiet, observe how they shake pepper onto their salad, and try to connect the dots on your own? How are you with honest communication?

For the past month I have felt like something was “off” in my relationship. I couldn’t quite understand why it was different, but I knew it was definitely a little different.

I tried to put my intuitive feelers out and observe my way through it. I tried to ask questions, I even tried to tell myself, “I’m just overreacting.”

Yesterday I finally reached out to my closest friends because a couple of days ago I confronted my sweet chemist about it in a more aggressive way. Like:

I’ve-tried-to-ask-you-questions, but-now-I’m-just-going-to-demand-answers kind of way.

I thought about what he said, I thought about what they said, and I was still stumped this morning when I woke up.

I finally just decided to “let it go” despite the fact that I KNEW something was wrong. As soon as I “let it go”, it hit me like a ton of bricks.

It Was A Eureka Moment: Hand Me a V8

As soon as I ” let it go” and told myself out loud today, “It is what it is, and this is just the way it is.” Within 5 minutes, BAM! I had my V8 moment, the light bulb went on, eureka!

I realized WHY was so upset and offended. And then I did the brave thing:

I reached for my phone and told him I realized what was wrong and why I have been feeling so offended these past few days.

And then he told me his side of his thoughts, and this is how we were able to resolve the misunderstanding and hurt feelings.

How We Got From There to Here

Even though I’m always one who likes to ask a million questions and try to figure out what is going on when I sense some “off” energy from others, I was not able to figure this one out on my own.

But, as soon as I quit struggling in my attempts to get answers and know the outcome, the resolution came so quickly and easily.

The Universe likes speed, it doesn’t want you to struggle, unless you want to struggle. It doesn’t want you to feel bad, unless you want to feel bad.

The Universe wants you to flourish and be a total badass at life. But, only if YOU want to flourish, be a total badass at life, be the CEO of your business, become a parent, grab your dream job, meet your soulmate/twin flame, Manifast a lot of money, be at peace with your mindset, and whatever else you desire in your life!

So, whatever you are attracting, it is a mirror effect, even if you don’t realize it right away. And the best way to realize it is to let it go, release the NEED to know the answers, the outcome. And just flow…the Universe will give you your resolution so quickly!

Can you recall a time this happened to you with another person in your life? If so, reply and tell me about it and how you came to your resolution. I want to know!

Have a wonderful weekend, Sensational Soul!

Release Your Fear & Manifast: Manifest Faster!

Journal Girl Jaclyn

The Biggest Lesson I Learned in Love

 

Hey Sensational Soul!

Valentine’s Day is tomorrow and I want to share with you the biggest lesson I learned in the realm of love. I feel like someone needs to read this:

The biggest lesson I learned in love is that no matter how hard you try to get another to accept you, love you, and approve of you, you’re still going to need to learn how to love yourself first and foremost.

Only when you love yourself COMPLETELY is when healthy, authentic love from another soul magically comes flying into your physical realm.

Loving yourself completely means accepting all of you with gentle care. Even the traits you may not be too fond of, learn to embrace them. Or, change because YOU want to change for your OWN growth and for your OWN happiness. Never change who you are to please another. Only change if you want to change for YOURSELF.

The right souls are magnetically drawn to you when you embrace yourself 100% with your own self-love.

You are enough. You are MORE than enough. You are a facet that helps to make up this gem we call “earth”. You are needed. You ARE loved. And you ARE worthy of receiving your most IDEAL relationship.

When your soul is ready, your mate will appear.

Have faith in the Universe and trust the process. And have a WONDERFUL day tomorrow! Fill yourself up with love and let it all vibrate from your soul’s core. I appreciate you and I totally believe in you!

Release Your Fear & Manifast: Manifest Faster!

Journal Girl Jaclyn