A Rant on Love- And What to Do About It

Have you ever felt like you had NO CLUE what you were doing in the love department? Or maybe you never have any good luck when it comes to love and relationships?

I’m just like you: I spent the majority of my life completely confused about what constitutes a healthy relationship. I spent my teens and my 20’s trying REALLY hard to get people to approve of me, especially my 3 relationships. I even spent my early 30’s trying to attempt approval from the outside.

The majority of my 36 years I spent trying to PLEASE EVERYONE around me. And what did it do for me? Nothing. Well, maybe not nothing. It DID leave me exhausted, irritated, sad, frustrated, confused, feeling unworthy, and completely emotional most of the time.

I was walking on eggshells around…well, myself.

I’m just like you, or maybe the past you. Either way, my point is, some people may look at me and think I’m “higher” up on the totem pole of life when they follow me on social media. I hate to sugarcoat things, so let me just be blunt for a moment:

I AM JUST LIKE YOU. PERIOD.

Even though I no longer allow myself to be in toxic relationships that leave me feeling completely worthless and crazy, it doesn’t mean I still don’t have my “moments”. I am human. I am a total Badass, yes. But, I am just like you; which means YOU are a total Badass as well. And don’t you even deny it because you ARE!

LISTEN TO LEARN MORE!

Release Your Fear & ManiFast!

XOXO Jaclyn

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Have a beautiful week and remember…

Release Your Fear to ManiFast!

XOXO Jaclyn

You Are Meant To Be In This Very Moment

You are enough. You are MORE than enough. In this very moment in time you are meant to be here. Sometimes when it feels like you are slipping away from your dreams and goals, you are actually moving CLOSER to them.

The Universe works behind the scenes 99% of the time before you view your manifestations with your window panes (your eyes). You do not see with your eyes, you see with your mind.

So, keep your focus on the prize. Keep your focus on feeling good, doing what feels good to your soul, and understand the “magic” of this phenomenal Universe is to:

Surrender to the process (because the Universe IS taking care of it all and IS going to surprise you with even BETTER than you can ever imagine).
Let go of the “how” and “when” you’ve been conditioned over time to have the urge to know (it’s a habitual process you developed over time, unlearn this).
And release the need to have IT in front of your eyes when you don’t even see with your eyes, anyway (your mind is the projector machine, your eyes are the screens).

Energy is fluid, not a “solid” (and even a “solid” is still fluid because of the particles bouncing around). Ha! You are made OF elemental energy; therefore, you are fluid (you are made up of mostly water). And YOU are meant to have a fluid experience on this planet because everything on this planet IS energy. It’s all one in the same. Everything is interconnected.

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Put on Your Floaties & Relax into the Flow of it All

Your need to control your surroundings, to figure out the how, and be presented with “proof” is what is holding your manifestations at bay. You ARE receiving your dreams, it IS happening. When you struggle, force, and demand to know the “how” and “when”, you push it further out of your physical sphere.

You are meant to be at this very place in time, right now.

You are meant to be here right now because you are leveling UP by refining, defining, and polishing EXACTLY what you desire into your life. If you wobble, the Universe gives you more to wobble. If you get CLEAR on what you desire and stay firm with unwavering focus of TRUST, UPS (Universe Parcel Service) will deliver your manifestations to you in record time, Beautiful Soul!

You’ve got this!

Surrender to the “how”, it is not your job. Surrender to the “when”, it is not your job. Embrace the process, your journey, because manifesting is not a diet. It’s a lifestyle. And YOU are Mastering Manifasting, this IS supposed to happen RIGHT NOW in this very moment in time.

Stay the course of following your soul’s calling. I believe in you!

Release Your Fear & Manifast: Manifest Faster!

XOXO Jaclyn

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So You Got Called “Fat”

My Video Message

 

Fearful & Insecure

I remember when I felt super insecure about myself and lived with total worry and fear. I remember when I thought I wasn’t good enough to share my message, to share my gifts, to share my manifesting methods because I thought to myself, “Well, I’m not famous, so why would anyone listen to what I have to say?”

This was 3 years ago. And then I remembered what my Dad used to tell me while growing up (who is now in the sky):

You will always get a “no” if you don’t try.

It’s such a simple and common phrase, yet it’s very true. And so I began trying, but I looked at it as “experimenting”.

The Experiment

I told myself 3 years ago that I was experimenting through my gifts. Yes, again, I was always one who was super insecure and lived with total worry and fear. But, over time through setting intentions with consistent daily efforts of “experimenting”, my mindset system went from scarcity thinking/living to total and courageous abundance in EVERY way!

Does this mean I don’t have any fears, worry, or insecurities any longer? Hell no! I’m human, after all. But, I now know HOW to respond to my mindset whenever a fear, or a worry, or an insecurity wants to surface again. Learning Mastering Manifasting (Manifesting Faster) is a skill, and it’s totally achievable for ANYONE who sets their mind to it, commits to it, and WANTS to learn this amazing skill.

3 years ago I was a meek, docile, scared and insecure girl at 33 years old. Today, I am a 36 year-old woman who isn’t afraid to speak her mind, share her gifts, rise up like the Phoenix she is after all the $hit she has been through in her life, OWN herself, and OWN it when it comes to the Law of Attraction!

The Outcome

After “experimenting” and Manifasting 99% of my desires within 10 months, I put all of my methods into my 2 books, “Don’t Feel Stuck!” and “Don’t Feel Stuck in Love!” These journaling methods will have you ManiFASTing because writing is such a POWERFUL tool in manifesting with the Law of Attraction. Writing it down creates stronger vibrations because you write with conviction. Why would you write down something that you didn’t believe in or want to believe in?

Even if you don’t like to journal, reading the books help you to SHIFT your thought process because you learn HOW to approach from a different angle.

Are YOU ready to OWN yourself and OWN it with Manifasting with the Law of Attraction? Are you ready to Manifast ALL your desires into your physical sphere? Don’t be scared, it’s quite an easy skill to learn. And if someone like me (a once stubborn, fearful girl) can SHIFT her mindset belief system within 10 months and Manifast SO MUCH into her own life, I KNOW you can, too! I Manifasted:

A brand new car of my choice for free
Getting out of $29K debt (this took 2 years)
A brand new washer/dryer set of my choice for free
My soulmate/twin flame/best friend and we are about 2 years into our relationship now (this was after being single for 9 YEARS)
Meeting my icon, Bruce Springsteen (though, I didn’t know at the time this was manifesting)
Being credited in a Hollywood short film
Starting my own thriving business, Manifest It!
Publishing 2 best-selling books
Starting my own thriving My Manifesting Journal line (am about to start a line of other products)
Bringing myself to 21 lbs lighter without any effort
A blessed and major shift in my work with famous physicists
And SO MUCH MORE!

Grab your copy now and learn the easy skill of Manifasting (Manifesting Faster) because I am 100% confident that you CAN and you WILL Manifast ALL your desires into your life, quickly, if you commit to learning this skill. It’s like learning the lyrics to your favorite song, or learning how to work a new app on your phone. You’ve got this! I totally believe in you! See below and I’ll see you within the pages of my best-selling transforming books!

Even if you don’t like to journal, reading the books help you to SHIFT your thought process because you learn HOW to approach from a different angle. YES! I’m so excited for you!!!!

Release Your Fear & Manifast: Manifest Faster!


Do You Know This?

95% Of The Time It Plays Out So Much BETTER!

When you have a limiting thought or a fear creep up to the surface, what do you immediately think next?

I used to think, “I don’t want this to happen! I need to figure out how to make it NOT happen.” And then I spent the majority of my time trying to find ways to KEEP from my fears happening.

But then my fears played out. And I thought, “I knew this was going to happen!”

What I didn’t know at the time as that the Universe is a boomerang effect. Output = input. What you put out with your thoughts the majority of the time the Universe sends back to you in the physical form. This is because it thinks this IS what you WANT.

So How Do You Change These Habitual Thought Patterns?

You decide. And you choose. You commit to how you want to FEEL and to what you want to EXPERIENCE. You change your focus.

When you go to the ice cream shop and you take a sample of vanilla ice cream and you don’t like it. What do you do next? You don’t ask the ice cream employee to give you a cone of it. HELL NO.

You switch your focus and you sample another flavor because this is what you WANT to experience. You want to FEEL good while eating the flavor you desire.

So, you sample some chocolate ice cream and you love it. Then what do you do with your focus?

You ask for a cone of chocolate ice cream. You ask for more of the same because you are responding by how you WANT to FEEL with your desired experience.

Now, you are presented with something even further:

“Do you want sprinkles or some salted caramel to go on top?”

WHATTT???

You reply, “YEAHHH! Lay it on me!” Now you are super excited because it’s such a nice surprise. You get to the counter and the employee tells you they have a 20% off coupon they can use for you. You think:

YES!!! This worked out so much better! I’m coming back to this place!

95% of the time your experiences, if you so CHOOSE to ALLOW them to be so, work out much better than you thought they would, depending on how you CHOOSE to focus in your approach to the outcome.

Psychology & The Neglect of Probability

The neglect of probability, or “probability neglect” coined by Harvard Law Professor, Cass Sunstein, is a sort of bias we create with our mindset beliefs because we have a habit of shrugging off probability when making decisions about the uncertainty of outcomes.

In other words, small chances are usually either completely disregarded or extremely overrated/over-hyped. The continuum between the extremes of an outcome is typically ignored.

How often are you audited by the IRS? My guess is not often. But, how often do you see commercials on TV or advertisements about using a tax professional to perform your taxes so that they are “accurate” and you will no longer need to worry over it? Well, it’s quite often around tax season!

The probability that you will be likely audited by the IRS is low, so you CHOOSE to shrug off your worry about it (you neglect it). Or, you escalate your worry about it because you CHOOSE to focus on what the commercial is communicating to you via your emotions (it’s over-hyped in your mind).

Depending on how often you choose to worry over being audited is what you vibrate into the Universe. If you worry about it the majority of the time, then you are attracting it to your physical sphere because of the energy you put out into the Universe. Output = input. The Universe responds to you because it thinks you want MORE of the SAME.

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95% Of The Time It Plays Out So Much BETTER!

Your focus via your thoughts create your feelings. And your feelings are what sway you about by the probability of an uncertain outcome. Either you are swayed to shrug off the uncertainty of an outcome, or you are swayed to escalate the uncertainty through stressful emotions.

What you focus on the majority of the time is what plays out. And 95% of the time it plays out so much BETTER than you could even imagine. But, IF and only IF you make the decision to allow for it to play out in a favorable way.

Go back to the ice cream scenario for a moment: you went to get ice cream and you were excited for the outcome of purchasing ice cream to enjoy. And you even received some favorable surprises of toppings to choose from AND a 20% off coupon to reduce the price of your tasty treat.

But…you could have focused on the fact that you sampled vanilla ice cream and didn’t like it. And in that moment you could have chosen to immediately leave the store because of it.

Either way, you always get a CHOICE. The probability of any outcome is swayed by your focus. And, if you so choose, things usually work out much BETTER than you think they will because your soul knows exactly what you want for your highest happiness.

Becoming a Master Manifaster

If you want more help around HOW to tweak your mindset focus, release your beliefs you no longer want to harbor, and become a Master Manifaster by learning how to manifest faster, reply to me and let’s talk about it. I have ONE spot opening up next week for 1:1 mentoring with me between 1-3 months. Whether you are wanting to:

GROW your business into a powerful empire,
Manifast your IDEAL love relationship by calling in your soulmate/twinflame,
Manifast MORE money into your physical realm,
And/or learn HOW to be more peaceful and abundant in your life in general,

I’m here to help you and I totally believe and KNOW you CAN do this! Whatever it is you are wanting, it’s YOURS. Reply or send me a message on Facebook, and let’s get YOU clear on exactly what you DESIRE into your business and life. I’m also going to teach you HOW to Manifast ALL your desires into your life more quickly! I’m SO EXCITED to help you!

Have a beautiful weekend and remember…

Release Your Fear & Manifast: Manifest Faster!

Journal Girl Jaclyn