When You Feel Defeated As Fuck & You Want To Give In

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These past two days have been ROUGH on me mentally and emotionally. Normally I am a HUGE hustler, but in all honesty I feel I have been run over by an 18-wheeler and I feel defeated as fuck being an entrepreneur right now.

I started my business almost a year ago and while I have accomplished a LOT this past year, I still sometimes suffer from the comparison syndrome: I keep looking around at all these people who seem to have it all together online in their businesses and I ask myself, “how am I different? How can I help thousands of souls all around the world AND BE DIFFERENT? How do I stand out from this crowded cyberspace?”

Then I got a kick in the ass from my multi-millionaire business coach and she gave me the mental shaking I needed to receive: even if I didn’t have this business, even if I didn’t make a single penny doing my soul’s purpose work, would it REALLY make a difference?

This brings me to the point at hand: what is your SOUL telling you?

Strip away the online fakeness that tends to circulate and have us feeling like we aren’t doing enough in our own lives. Strip away those negative voices in our heads telling us we “aren’t good enough”. And yes, even strip away that green ink on paper we call money- a lot of people online pretend to have a lot of money anyway. Note: I said “pretend”.

I was actually feeling sorry for myself yesterday. I was having a bit of a pity party because I PRIDE myself in being honest. I PRIDE myself in being real. And I PRIDE myself in working my ass off in life. But I will swallow my pride and tell you I lost touch with my soul yesterday. My EGO came to the surface. I was whining and complaining to myself, to my business coach, and to my own boyfriend. I was feeling so fucking sorry for myself. And what did it do for me?

Absolutely nothing other than keep me submerged within a negative vortex. I got my much needed reality check today and I realize now that THIS IS ALL part of THE PROCESS. What I didn’t realize until now is that I was meant to go through this downward spiral for almost 24 hours because I AM SHEDDING fearful thoughts and beliefs that no longer serve my soul for its highest happiness in life.

I feel like a snake shedding my dead skin. I feel like I’m slithering out of my old and limiting thoughts and beliefs because I am LETTING GO and RELEASING what is holding me back from a mental and emotional standpoint. How CAN I grow and evolve as a soul if I continue to hold on to what NO LONGER serves me for my soul’s highest purpose? How CAN I do my soul’s purpose work if I, myself, don’t grow and evolve as a human being?

I realize now that I’m completely NORMAL and I’m completely HUMAN. When I listen to what my soul is telling me, it’s telling me that it’s okay to shed these fearful and limiting thoughts, and it’s okay to sometimes have internally downward moments, and that what I was currently thinking and feeling is coming to the surface so that I CAN grow and evolve even MORE SO into my version 2.0 badass superhero that I KNOW (my SOUL KNOWS) I am and beginning to show in life.

This time last year I was super scared to be on audio or video. Now I am frequently doing both, kicking my fears to the curb, and I AM helping thousands of souls all around the world every day. Whether or not I make a cent from it…that’s truly up to the Universe of WHEN and HOW. Yes, I CHOOSE to ALLOW IN monetary wealth, but my soul truly feels if I weren’t even making a cent doing what I’m doing, well fuck it, I’d STILL be doing this anyway because it’s a HELL YES for me within my soul! I’m MEANT to be publishing books to help so many souls in this world, I’m MEANT to be blogging like a badass, I’m MEANT to be mentoring and coaching so many of my soul-based, soulmate souls because this is what I’m CALLED to do in my life.

My question for you is: what is your SOUL telling YOU?

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And furthermore, are you FOLLOWING what your soul is craving? These kinds of growing pains are perfectly normal to have. It’s perfectly normal for me to have fears around leveling up and around investing even MORE into my business. I’m recording my audiobook of Don’t Feel Stuck! this weekend. I’m also editing my second book right now. Yes, I still have cyber fright (kind of like stage fright, but in the cyber world) despite the fact that my book has helped thousands of people. What if my second book doesn’t do as well?

No matter what we are all feeling and thinking, we must ALWAYS mentally have a “wake-up” call and ask ourselves: what is our SOUL telling US? Are we following our soul’s calling? Because if we are not, and we are making choices based out of FEAR, we are going to REMAIN feeling STUCK in our lives and we will merely be paralyzed while time continues to tick on and we grow older.

This is what’s truly defeating (staying stuck and stagnant in our lives due to fears). Most of what we fear doesn’t even come “true” anyway, unless we give a lot of power and focus TO IT.

So keep going! You are doing so much better than you realize! And no, I’m not a robot: I’m just like you and I have my “shit” moments as well. It’s a choice in how we CHOOSE to respond to these moments for the long-run. What is our soul telling us?

My soul is saying: keep going, Babe. You’ve got this!

And I KNOW you can keep going and you’ve got this, too. Follow your soul, keep plugging away at your dreams because one day you will look back and say to yourself: thank gosh I didn’t give up! Keep showing the Universe what your soul truly wants! Have your crying fit and pick yourself back up because you ARE a total badass at life. You’ve got this!

 

 

Carpe Diem!

Journal Girl Jaclyn

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– a brand new car for free (of my choosing)

– a brand new washer/dryer set for free (of my choosing)

– an extra $4K in cash received

– a majorly positive shift in my work with the physicists

– my name credited in a short film narrated by Tilda Swinton and with music by George Lucas’s company

– becoming 17 lbs lighter (I reached 20 so far)

– publishing my first book that has sold HUNDREDS of copies so far

– starting my own now thriving business

– receiving my soulmate and ideal relationship after being super single for 9 years prior

– and there is more, but I can’t even think right now!

I’m going to sign up for my own program so I can kick my current fears to the curb! No sense in allowing them to linger around any longer. Carpe diem! Time to seize the day like the badass I KNOW I am! And you CAN manifest ANYTHING YOU WANT, too! I’m here to help kick your spiritual ass into gear because if I could do it (super stubborn me), then I KNOW you can do it, too! Say it with me: Bye bye fears, go fuck yourself because you are no longer welcomed into my soul’s sphere. You’ve got this! See you in the program!

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Are You Settling In Life?

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Hey Sensational Soul!

I want to remind you that you should NEVER settle in life. You are SO worthy and deserving to achieve whatever it is you want in your life! Never settle in your job, never settle in your relationships, never settle in marriages, never settle with your family and friends, never settle with how you are being treated by others in life, and yes, never settle when it comes to your daily living!

When You Do Something Out Of The Approval Of Others You Are Not Living By Your Soul’s Calling

When you respond to others in a way you feel will make others feel best is not living by your soul’s calling. You are NOT responsible for others, you are responsible for YOU and YOU alone. When you “play small” in order to make other people feel comfortable with you, you’re missing out on some HUGE opportunities in life! Furthermore, you are missing out on your TRUE happiness because you are not following your soul’s path in your journey.

Soul Nudges

I’m not saying you have to completely uproot your entire life in one day; rather, what I’m saying is: the next time you feel that nudge in your gut, it’s your soul telling you how to make your decision in order to best live your life in the HAPPIEST WAY. And you ARE worthy and you ARE allowed to live life in the way you want to live it. You only live once.

And Remember:

Just when life feels like it’s falling apart, it may actually be redirecting everything to propel you towards obtaining and living out your life’s dreams. Never settle, never, ever settle. And listen to your gut, it’s your intuition, it’s your soul telling you what to do and how to respond.

Have a GREAT weekend!

Carpe Diem!
Journal Girl Jaclyn

When Was The Last Time You Listened?

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When was the last time you listened to your soul, your intuition?

When faced with making a decision, ask yourself the following:

– Am I making a decision based upon my fears? If so, which ones are coming into play and WHY do I have them?

– If I make this decision, will it help me towards my life goals/my soul’s calling? Why or why not?

– What is the worst-case scenario if I were to make a decision based upon my fears? What is the best-case scenario if I were to make a decision based upon my fears?

– What is the worst-case scenario if I were to make a decision based upon moving towards my life’s goals/my soul’s calling? What is the best-case scenario if I were to make a decision based upon moving towards my life’s goals/my soul’s calling?

Now examine what you come up with and let it sit within your mindset for a few hours or even a few days. I find writing this out in my Mastering Your Mindset journaling helps to gain an abundance of clarity when it comes to making decisions that require change.

It’s good to self-reflect before going into a direction because a lot of the time we subconscious make decisions based upon our fears.

Just wanted to pop in and give these helps tips!

PS- Mastering Your Mindset, my FREE 3-Day bootcamp, starts on Friday! Message me for details if you are interested and you have purchased my hugely selling transformation book on Amazon!

Tomorrow is a new day…

Carpe Diem!
Journal Girl Jaclyn

3 Key Questions:

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Hey Sensational Soul!

My client sent this TED Talk video to me and I find he speaks a lot of what I teach to so many souls all around the world: live by your soul’s calling because what seems impossible is actually possible! The only reason why you deem it to be impossible is because you THINK it is impossible. And what you give power to in your thoughts become what you BELIEVE to be as “truth”.

And what do I teach? I teach so many beautiful souls to learn HOW to change their thoughts and mindset beliefs! And it CAN be done! I am one of the most stubborn people out there and I totally did it last year- and I manifested SO MUCH into my life that I am truly so thankful and blessed every single day.

Check out what he has to say, and pay close attention towards the end when he proposes the 3 Key Questions. It’s the same approach I teach my clients (who are now manifesting SO MUCH into their own lives) and that I teach in my journal workbook (readers send me such wonderful manifestation messages to me on a daily basis about HOW QUICKLY they are now manifesting into their own lives!):

Watch the short TED Talk

Have a wonderful Sunday! And remember, tomorrow is not promised to anyone, so…

Carpe Diem!

Journal Girl Jaclyn

This Is The REAL Reason

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Just leaving this right here for anyone who needs the reminder…

You know what I always say: keep going!

Be gentle with yourself, love yourself, keep training your mindset towards a place of positivity. You ARE worthy and you ARE enough.

Your life is transitioning into a more abundant and prosperous life when you keep going and keep believing. Always make decisions based upon moving towards what your soul truly desires in life and what makes you happiest.

PS- Send me a photo of you holding my book or a screenshot of your Amazon order and get access to my free 3-day bootcamp starting on May 11th! It’s in a private Facebook group and I’m SO EXCITED!!! It’s time to Master Your Mindset!

Carpe Diem!
Journal Girl Jaclyn