When You Feel Defeated As Fuck & You Want To Give In

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These past two days have been ROUGH on me mentally and emotionally. Normally I am a HUGE hustler, but in all honesty I feel I have been run over by an 18-wheeler and I feel defeated as fuck being an entrepreneur right now.

I started my business almost a year ago and while I have accomplished a LOT this past year, I still sometimes suffer from the comparison syndrome: I keep looking around at all these people who seem to have it all together online in their businesses and I ask myself, “how am I different? How can I help thousands of souls all around the world AND BE DIFFERENT? How do I stand out from this crowded cyberspace?”

Then I got a kick in the ass from my multi-millionaire business coach and she gave me the mental shaking I needed to receive: even if I didn’t have this business, even if I didn’t make a single penny doing my soul’s purpose work, would it REALLY make a difference?

This brings me to the point at hand: what is your SOUL telling you?

Strip away the online fakeness that tends to circulate and have us feeling like we aren’t doing enough in our own lives. Strip away those negative voices in our heads telling us we “aren’t good enough”. And yes, even strip away that green ink on paper we call money- a lot of people online pretend to have a lot of money anyway. Note: I said “pretend”.

I was actually feeling sorry for myself yesterday. I was having a bit of a pity party because I PRIDE myself in being honest. I PRIDE myself in being real. And I PRIDE myself in working my ass off in life. But I will swallow my pride and tell you I lost touch with my soul yesterday. My EGO came to the surface. I was whining and complaining to myself, to my business coach, and to my own boyfriend. I was feeling so fucking sorry for myself. And what did it do for me?

Absolutely nothing other than keep me submerged within a negative vortex. I got my much needed reality check today and I realize now that THIS IS ALL part of THE PROCESS. What I didn’t realize until now is that I was meant to go through this downward spiral for almost 24 hours because I AM SHEDDING fearful thoughts and beliefs that no longer serve my soul for its highest happiness in life.

I feel like a snake shedding my dead skin. I feel like I’m slithering out of my old and limiting thoughts and beliefs because I am LETTING GO and RELEASING what is holding me back from a mental and emotional standpoint. How CAN I grow and evolve as a soul if I continue to hold on to what NO LONGER serves me for my soul’s highest purpose? How CAN I do my soul’s purpose work if I, myself, don’t grow and evolve as a human being?

I realize now that I’m completely NORMAL and I’m completely HUMAN. When I listen to what my soul is telling me, it’s telling me that it’s okay to shed these fearful and limiting thoughts, and it’s okay to sometimes have internally downward moments, and that what I was currently thinking and feeling is coming to the surface so that I CAN grow and evolve even MORE SO into my version 2.0 badass superhero that I KNOW (my SOUL KNOWS) I am and beginning to show in life.

This time last year I was super scared to be on audio or video. Now I am frequently doing both, kicking my fears to the curb, and I AM helping thousands of souls all around the world every day. Whether or not I make a cent from it…that’s truly up to the Universe of WHEN and HOW. Yes, I CHOOSE to ALLOW IN monetary wealth, but my soul truly feels if I weren’t even making a cent doing what I’m doing, well fuck it, I’d STILL be doing this anyway because it’s a HELL YES for me within my soul! I’m MEANT to be publishing books to help so many souls in this world, I’m MEANT to be blogging like a badass, I’m MEANT to be mentoring and coaching so many of my soul-based, soulmate souls because this is what I’m CALLED to do in my life.

My question for you is: what is your SOUL telling YOU?

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And furthermore, are you FOLLOWING what your soul is craving? These kinds of growing pains are perfectly normal to have. It’s perfectly normal for me to have fears around leveling up and around investing even MORE into my business. I’m recording my audiobook of Don’t Feel Stuck! this weekend. I’m also editing my second book right now. Yes, I still have cyber fright (kind of like stage fright, but in the cyber world) despite the fact that my book has helped thousands of people. What if my second book doesn’t do as well?

No matter what we are all feeling and thinking, we must ALWAYS mentally have a “wake-up” call and ask ourselves: what is our SOUL telling US? Are we following our soul’s calling? Because if we are not, and we are making choices based out of FEAR, we are going to REMAIN feeling STUCK in our lives and we will merely be paralyzed while time continues to tick on and we grow older.

This is what’s truly defeating (staying stuck and stagnant in our lives due to fears). Most of what we fear doesn’t even come “true” anyway, unless we give a lot of power and focus TO IT.

So keep going! You are doing so much better than you realize! And no, I’m not a robot: I’m just like you and I have my “shit” moments as well. It’s a choice in how we CHOOSE to respond to these moments for the long-run. What is our soul telling us?

My soul is saying: keep going, Babe. You’ve got this!

And I KNOW you can keep going and you’ve got this, too. Follow your soul, keep plugging away at your dreams because one day you will look back and say to yourself: thank gosh I didn’t give up! Keep showing the Universe what your soul truly wants! Have your crying fit and pick yourself back up because you ARE a total badass at life. You’ve got this!

 

 

Carpe Diem!

Journal Girl Jaclyn

PS- Are you ready to tell your fears to go fuck themselves yet? Click the purple link here to receive your promo before it runs out! I used these EXACT methods last year to manifest:

– a brand new car for free (of my choosing)

– a brand new washer/dryer set for free (of my choosing)

– an extra $4K in cash received

– a majorly positive shift in my work with the physicists

– my name credited in a short film narrated by Tilda Swinton and with music by George Lucas’s company

– becoming 17 lbs lighter (I reached 20 so far)

– publishing my first book that has sold HUNDREDS of copies so far

– starting my own now thriving business

– receiving my soulmate and ideal relationship after being super single for 9 years prior

– and there is more, but I can’t even think right now!

I’m going to sign up for my own program so I can kick my current fears to the curb! No sense in allowing them to linger around any longer. Carpe diem! Time to seize the day like the badass I KNOW I am! And you CAN manifest ANYTHING YOU WANT, too! I’m here to help kick your spiritual ass into gear because if I could do it (super stubborn me), then I KNOW you can do it, too! Say it with me: Bye bye fears, go fuck yourself because you are no longer welcomed into my soul’s sphere. You’ve got this! See you in the program!

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Thank Gosh For Free-Will In Love…Or We Could All Be Donald Trump’s Puppet

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Many people are curious about whether or not the law of attraction works on attracting a specific person in a specific way to you.

Let me introduce the concept of “free-will”…you might be actually quite GLAD that it exists when you REALLY think about it!

Carpe Diem!

Journal Girl Jaclyn

 

 

 

You Have To Be Yourself First and Foremost

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Hey Sensational Soul!

I often get asked, “How do you sell so many books?” My answer is ALWAYS the same:

You Have To Be Yourself First & Foremost

Whether you are growing your own business, selling products, mentoring, teaching, coaching, finding your soulmate, interviewing for your dream job, losing weight, and anything and everything else…you have to be yourself first and foremost- ALWAYS!

Otherwise, you are not being 100% honest with…YOU. How does this equal TRUE happiness? You know the rule of karma? What goes around comes around. If you are not honest with yourself, it comes back to you. Law of attraction states “like attracts like”, so if you are dishonest with yourself, you’ll get more of dishonesty coming into your physical realm.

Do you just want “anything” to come your way? HELL NO! You want what is BEST FOR YOU! And what is BEST FOR YOUR HAPPINESS! Right??

Your Soul Vibe Attracts Your Soul Tribe

You don’t want to feel desperate because the Universe will bring MORE of the same: feelings of desperation. Also, you’ll attract the WRONG kind of souls who are not a match to you. You WANT your soul-based, soulmate souls to come into your life and STAY in your life. And if you are selling products, you WANT your soul-based souls to purchase from you, too. It creates a much bigger loyalty in the long-run because you are being honest with yourself in the process of selling to others.

And this is the truth. Even if you are manifesting some L-Bs (pounds) to fall off of you, my tip is to ALWAYS be honest with YOURSELF! Are you more likely to quit the sweets cold turkey? Or, are you more likely to introduce a healthier eating lifestyle little bits at a time? Either way is completely, 100% OKAY to do so as long as you are being honest with yourself.

Think Long-Term Results

Us homo sapiens are creatures of habit. The more we practice at something, the longer we stick to it. Besides, instant results don’t always guarantee CONCRETE results. Everything in life is temporary, the only constant is really change in itself. By being able to focus on your long-term results, and by being able to be 100% honest with yourself, you are able to handle life’s twists and turns much more easily because you are on a life-long soulful journey of authenticity. And I don’t know about you, but being authentic is MUCH MORE pleasing in life than not being authentic to ourselves!

It doesn’t mean your manifestations can’t come quickly- of course they CAN! I just mean you’re likely to STICK to YOUR long-term plan when you take steps each day to move towards your manifestations. In addition, by practicing at manifesting each and every day through your Mastering Your Mindset work, it gets easier over time and your brain accepts it as second-nature. In other words, your brain goes on auto-pilot in your habitual cognitive behaviors. This opens up the portal for your manifestations to come into your physical realm! YES!!!!

Marry & Stay Faithful To Your Soul

Stay true and honest to yourself and your soul’s truest needs because this is what you’re likely to STAY COMMITTED TO while vibrating your thoughts, feelings, and actions to SHOW the Universe what you are seriously wanting to come into your physical realm. Think of manifesting as a long-term marriage with your soul. Why would anyone want to BE and STAY in a marriage that isn’t happy?

Have faith in your soul and in the manifestation process: you either get EXACTLY what you want; or, something MUCH BETTER comes FOR YOU!

To thy own self be true” – William Shakespeare

Ol’ Billy Shakespeare has a point! Success and manifestations DO happen when you are honest and true to yourself. I’m rooting for you, Sensational Soul, you’ve totally got this!

Carpe Diem!

Journal Girl Jaclyn

PS- I’m just about ready to start editing my second book! I’m so excited to help so many souls around the world manifest their soulmate/twin flame and ideal relationship!

But first, have you nabbed my hugely selling book yet?

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Carpe Diem!

Journal Girl Jaclyn

Letting Go Of Past Relationships In Order To Call In Your Ideal Relationship

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Hey Sensational Soul!

Happy Monday! I hope you had a GREAT weekend! Some of you may or may not know that I was single for 9 YEARS before my chemist came along 8 months ago. I never purposely called in my soulmate and ideal relationship until March of 2017. 10 months later he literally came into my life and it has now been 8 GREAT months together!

BUT…

In order to have called him in, I needed to first declutter my mindset beliefs around love, and let go of the past with regards to my past relationships and past love. In February of 2017 I had made the DECISION that was ready to CLEAR OUT what no longer served me for my soul’s highest good, and I completely put my trust into the Universe and surrendered to the “how” and the “when” of my ideal relationship.

One thing I did in order to let go of my past was to write a letter to my former love interests/relationships. For each person I wrote a 1-2 page letter THANKING them for my life experience with them. In addition, I thanked them for everything they taught me about relationships and about life.

I did NOT focus on the negatives. Remember, the point is to CLEAR OUT the past and SHIFT your mindset around your love/relationship beliefs. I focused on all of the positive things I experienced and all of the positives that I learned FROM these relationships and interests.

For example, if I wasn’t treated the way I was treated in the past, I wouldn’t have become the strong and independent woman that I now AM. Due to my relationships and how they played out, I have been able to release my inner superhero. This is a GOOD thing!

You Can Do This With Anything

You can literally do this with anything you are manifesting into your life, it doesn’t solely have to be on love and relationships. For example, a client of mine wanted to sell her car. It was the type of car that was no longer running and wasn’t fully put together either. Instead of my client focusing on the pieces of the car and worrying about how she would sell this car, I suggested to her to write out how THANKFUL she is for all of the use she DID get out of it and how much she loves her car because of all the wonderful things it did for her. I suggested to her to THANK the Universe for everything and that she is ready to send it to the next owner in complete LOVE…and guess what!? She did her Mastering Your Mindset journaling and ON THE SAME DAY she sold her car for how much she wanted to receive for it!

Shift Your Mindset Beliefs In Gratitude

So regardless of whether or not you are trying to sell a car, a home, obtain your dream job, or even receive your soulmate and ideal relationship, write your letter to give THANKS to what no longer serves you for your soul’s highest good so that you CAN send it out into the Universe in love and be able to be OPEN and ALLOW new blessings to come into your physical realm.

Focusing on the positives, no matter how hard it is to do so (I’ve been to hell and back in my life), will ALLOW you to receive MORE of the same: positive blessings into your life. It’s not that you are wishing for MORE of your past experiences, you are merely SHIFTING your mindset from a limiting and scarcity vibration into a more gracious and grateful mindset because you are TRUSTING the Universe’s process of the “how” and “when” of your manifestations. You are SURRENDERING to the Universe, which in turn, allows you to be open to some AMAZING blessings that ARE manifesting into your physical realm. However and whenever!

You gotta TRUST the process. I threw my hands up into the air and KNEW I was going to be with my soulmate and ideal relationship. I didn’t care how or when it was going to happen, I just KNEW and TRUSTED it was manifesting. And now I have been with my sweet chemist for 8 months and he is 99% of everything I journaled out that I wanted in a life partner and relationship.

THANK YOU, UNIVERSE!

PS- If you are ready to call in your soulmate and ideal relationship into your physical realm, hop on over to my VIP Mastering Your Mindset manifesting group: Don’t Feel Stuck in Love! In-Depth Coaching w/Journal Girl Jaclyn. It’s MORE powerful Mastering Your Mindset work (like in the above), MORE access to me (think ongoing Q&A access), and MORE empowering mindset SHIFTING methods that I used (and that WORKED!) to call in my soulmate and ideal relationship! Click the blue link in my title of the group to scroll down and find out all of the details!

And remember…

Carpe Diem!

Journal Girl Jaclyn

Want To Uplevel Your Life? Uplevel Your Environment: It’s Version 2.0 Time!

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Hey Sensational Soul!

Today I want to propose to you an idea revolving around upleveling your life. We all have life goals and dreams we want to achieve! Regardless of what they are, in order to uplevel to the next version of yourself, sometimes it’s really great to uplevel your environment and surroundings as well.

What do I mean by this? I mean like when you were a kid and your parents told you to go “clean your room”- but this time I mean your home!

We are working on aligning to your next-version self, your 2.0 version self, so becoming your next-version self involves not only aligning in a mental state, but also in areas of which you spend the majority of your time on a DAILY basis. Daily positive mindset, daily positive environment! YES! I’m talking to YOU!

This Is How I Manifested $4K In CASH Last Year!

If you are aligning to receive more money, get your wallet out and throw away old receipts, organize it, put some dollars in there (doesn’t matter on the amount), and get clear about your money goal. How can you invite more money to flow into your life if you keep old receipts that are no longer for your needs?

A clean and organized wallet will not only help you to feel more at ease about your wallet in general, but it will allow for more abundance to flow into your wallet! The point is, you gotta FEEL abundant- and opening your clean wallet to feel those dollar bills against your finger tips will help you to FEEL more prosperous and abundant! Feeling a bunch of receipts won’t make you FEEL abundant- it will remind you of expenses, not of profits (unless it’s a deposit slip!).

What About Your Closet and Your Garage?

Do you have old clothes that you no longer wear? Clear them out! How can you invite a marriage you truly want if you take up ALL of the space in your closet? Clear out the old clothes and shoes, and make a nice space for your “spouse”. If you want newer, more expensive clothes, you still need to clear out the “old” to make way for the newer threads!

What about your garage? Yes, don’t think I was going to fail to mention the number 1 junk space. Are you wanting a new car? Or, do you expect that when you get married there will be more cars? Tidy up the garage, throw out the old stuff that no longer serves you so that you can align to your next-version self! And even clearing out the older stuff will make more room for your “spouse’s” car (it will fit in so nicely with that extra space).

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Tidy Up

Look around your home and locate where you spend the majority of your time. Tidy it up, clean it up, make it look and FEEL more like your version 2.0 self because you have to start aligning to it. The Universe won’t know to help bring it into your life if you are constantly living in the past- and I do mean this metaphorically AND literally when I say this.

It’s good to align yourself as if it’s already in the present because when the Universe brings it to you, it will feel like, “Oh yeah, I was hoping for that!” This is partly how to manifest your life goals!

Look at it this way: a completed puzzle represents your life goal. Start putting the pieces together and don’t worry about HOW you will get to the last piece of the puzzle. Just relax and trust that by aligning the pieces together the universe IS helping you to complete the puzzle with that last piece. Don’t worry about how it will get finished, just start doing and taking the inspired action on a daily basis!

Your Focus

Remember, you can’t focus on, “Well, once I have it THEN I’ll be happy.” You have to start doing things and FEELING happy in the present to invite MORE abundance and prosperity into your life! Enjoy the journey of putting the puzzle pieces together– it wouldn’t be called a hobby if people didn’t like putting the pieces together. So relax, clear out your literal space so you can be more calm and at ease within your surroundings as you align mentally with upleveling your life. One clears off a table to begin putting a puzzle together, clear off your “table” so the Universe can help you to complete the puzzle that IS your life goal. It’s happening!

The Universe Is ALWAYS Working FOR You!

Once you start feeling abundant in all areas of your life by clearing out what no longer serves you, you’re open to receive your life’s goals and dreams– and sometimes the Universe delivers even MORE than what you expect!

Are you struggling to stay in a more positive belief state? I am sharing techniques that helped me to rid of my anxiety and manifest some of my own life goals that I NOW have accomplished! Grab your spot! Are you READY to start manifesting more and more abundance into YOUR life!? I’m SO excited to HELP YOU!!!

Carpe Diem!

Journal Girl Jaclyn

New Podcast: Love & The Art of Freeing Yourself

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I’m just like you:
I spent the majority of my life completely confused about what constitutes a healthy relationship. I spent my teens and my 20’s trying REALLY hard to get people to approve of me, especially my 3 relationships. I even spent my early 30’s trying to attempt approval from the outside.
I spent the majority of my 35 years trying to PLEASE EVERYONE around me. And what did it do for me? Nothing. Well, maybe not nothing. It DID leave me exhausted, irritated, sad, frustrated, confused, feeling unworthy, and completely emotional most of the time. I was walking on eggshells around…well, myself.
I’m just like you, or maybe the past you. Either way, my point is, some people may look at me and think I’m “higher” up on the totem pole of life when they follow me on social media. I hate to sugarcoat things, so let me just be blunt for a moment:
I AM JUST LIKE YOU. PERIOD.
Even though I no longer allow myself to be in toxic relationships that leave me feeling completely worthless and crazy, it doesn’t mean I still don’t have my “moments”. I am human. I am a total badass, yes. But, I am just like you; which means YOU are a total badass as well. And don’t you even deny it because you ARE! Listen to learn more!
Carpe Diem!
Journal Girl Jaclyn