A Rant on Love- And What to Do About It

Have you ever felt like you had NO CLUE what you were doing in the love department? Or maybe you never have any good luck when it comes to love and relationships?

I’m just like you: I spent the majority of my life completely confused about what constitutes a healthy relationship. I spent my teens and my 20’s trying REALLY hard to get people to approve of me, especially my 3 relationships. I even spent my early 30’s trying to attempt approval from the outside.

The majority of my 36 years I spent trying to PLEASE EVERYONE around me. And what did it do for me? Nothing. Well, maybe not nothing. It DID leave me exhausted, irritated, sad, frustrated, confused, feeling unworthy, and completely emotional most of the time.

I was walking on eggshells around…well, myself.

I’m just like you, or maybe the past you. Either way, my point is, some people may look at me and think I’m “higher” up on the totem pole of life when they follow me on social media. I hate to sugarcoat things, so let me just be blunt for a moment:

I AM JUST LIKE YOU. PERIOD.

Even though I no longer allow myself to be in toxic relationships that leave me feeling completely worthless and crazy, it doesn’t mean I still don’t have my “moments”. I am human. I am a total Badass, yes. But, I am just like you; which means YOU are a total Badass as well. And don’t you even deny it because you ARE!

LISTEN TO LEARN MORE!

Release Your Fear & ManiFast!

XOXO Jaclyn

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Trying to Change Another Soul

From The Secret Daily Teachings, by Rhonda Byrne:
Trying to change someone is a waste of time. The very thought of changing someone is saying that they are not good enough as they are, and it is soaked with judgment and disapproval. That is not a thought of appreciation or love, and those thoughts will only bring separation between you and that person. 
You must look for the good in people to have more of it appear. As you look only for the good things in a person, you will be amazed at what your new focus reveals.
The same goes for ANYTHING else you are attracting into your physical realm!
Journal Girl Jaclyn

Do You Want REAL Love? Or, Do You Want Control?

Art image by Pocket Art Design.

You know, it’s interesting when you put it all into perspective. I often get asked, “Can you manifest a specific person to you?” And my answer is always, “Everyone has free will, and be glad for this!” Of course, most people ask, “Why?” to which I respond:

How would you like it if YOU were forced to be in a relationship and forced to love someone YOU didn’t want to be committed to and didn’t want to be physical with?

(insert “eck” face when you think of someone you don’t want to be in a relationship with)

When I phrase it like this, then souls reply with something like, “Oh that’s true! I see what you mean.”

But seriously, are you really wanting REAL, equal, fully supportive love? Or, are you just wanting to control the outcome in your love life?

I used to think “real love” meant being in control of the relationship. This was, of course, AFTER being in 3 relationships in which I was BEING controlled all of the time.

REAL love doesn’t mean you are in control. Nor does REAL love mean THEY are in control, either.

REAL love is equal, it’s supportive, it’s full of compromising between BOTH parties, it’s encouraging, it feels safe and positive, it’s open and honest, it’s healthy commitment, and it’s rewarding. It’s a true partnership, a REAL best friendship. It’s REAL love.

Do YOU Want REAL Love?

I know, I know. When you feel IN love it’s a huge rush of intense feelings. Fear is also a similar rush of intense feelings.

Ask yourself these questions in order to DECIDE the most appropriate response for yourself with regards to whether you want REAL love; or, if you really want control (instead):

When I think of the other person, do I want them to be happy, even if it means being without me?
When I think of the other person, do they want ME to be happy, even if it means me not being with them?
When I think of being in my IDEAL relationship, am I making (any) excuses for their behavior if I don’t feel they are supportive or encouraging TO me and/or TO our relationship?
When I think of being in my IDEAL relationship, how do I respond to miscommunication and to life’s challenges we have/will have?
When I think of being in my IDEAL relationship, how do THEY respond to miscommunication and to life’s challenges we have/will have?
When I think of being in my IDEAL relationship, what does commitment look like to me? What all does it entail?
When I think of being in my IDEAL relationship, what does commitment look like to them? What all does it entail for them?
When I think of being in my IDEAL relationship, what does our future look like in the next 5 years? 10 years? 15 years?

These are just a few questions to explore through your Mastering Manifasting journaling around what love really means to you. There is SO MUCH MORE to explore in “shopping” for your ideal relationship. Then, you add your ideal relationship to your cart, click “check-out”, put in your delivery address, and then click “order”.

The”How to” in Manifasting Your Ideal Relationship

After you click “order”, what’s next? You then Master Manifasting even FURTHER by learning HOW to surrender to the Universe’s timing and its “way”. It’s easier than you think, especially because while you “shop” for your IDEAL relationship, you are ALREADY calling your ideal relationshipinto your physical realm.

So the whole process just speeds up without you even realizing it! Yes!

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See you all tomorrow for Day 4 of the workshop! And if you aren’t in the workshop, see you soon for some more Manifasting tips and tricks from me in Manifasting your IDEAL love, more money, growing your business, and obtaining your authentic happiness in living by your soul’s truest calling! Yes! I’m SO EXCITED for you!

How You Feel About Yourself is WHO You Attract

As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he.- Proverbs 23:7

Hi Sensational Soul!

Happy weekend! I am back from being in 4 different airports within a 24-hour period! It was a good trip and I’m very blessed to be able to go to California and pay respects to a woman I hold very dear to my heart. While there, I saw a few physicists I had previously met when they came to visit in Texas. I will admit, I am exhausted. I do not know how the physicists I work for can travel 85% of the year. But now I am back home and it’s time to continue helping all YOU beautiful souls in the world!

I spent this morning doing my mindset journaling around how our thoughts shape our reality. I think about the Universe and our role in it every single day.

Everything You Experience is Your Perspective

Do you know your hand is an illusion? YES! You are made up of billions of tiny elemental particles that are CONSTANTLY bouncing around throughout the air. We touch our hand and we VIBRATE the tiny particles to move around in a different way.

How AMAZING is this!? So at any given moment we CHANGE how we view what is our “reality”. Push the skin on your hand and it changes the way you view your hand. Go on, do it!

Therefore, you change what you THINK and BELIEVE about what your hand looks like in this moment. When you let go of the skin on your hand, the tiny particles bounce around furthermore and yet, again, change how you view your hand. You change what you deem to be as real.

What You Think About YOURSELF is What You Vibrate Into the World

Your ENERGY is constantly communicating to everyone around you. Your thoughts produce vibrations of the particles that make up your brain matter. Have you ever looked at medical imaging in how the brain is stimulated from thoughts and feelings? It’s phenomenal how all of our tiny, fast-moving particles can produce what we view and deem as “real”. And what you deem about YOURSELF is what you are communicating TO others because of how the Universe responds in its boomerang effect.

You know the saying, birds of a feather flock together.

What do you think about yourself?
How do you feel about yourself?
How are you treating yourself?
What kind of priorities do you have for yourself in your life and on a daily basis?
Are you putting your own love for yourself first? Why or why not?

How you view, feel, and treat yourself IS what you are drawing towards you in other people’s energies. You are consciously and subconsciously communicating to other people’s energies because energy is influenced and shaped by, well, energy!

The Universe Doesn’t Know What is Real & What is Not Real

Your energy you influence through thoughts, feelings, and actions is what the Universe is responding to by giving back to you through its own mirror-like response.

The next time you state, “all the good guys are taken” or “all the good women are already married”, stop and EXAMINE the kinds of thoughts and feelings you ARE producing into the Universe rooted from your mindset.

What you deem to believe is what is given TO you in response.

Are you allowing your SOUL to communicate? Or, are you covering up your SOUL’s truest happiness by allowing your limiting thoughts to rule your life?

Your SOUL is SO READY to follow its path and it IS ready to live life in your truest happiness! You CAN and you ARE worthy of living your life to your fullest potential and have the kind of loving relationships you truly desire!

Think of yourself as like a magnet attracting energy into your physical realm. What kind of energy do you WANT to attract? It all starts with YOU and how you feel about YOURSELF on the inside: your thoughts, your feelings, your belief systems. It’s not too late to BE the kind of energy you want to attract into your physical realm. Remember what I said earlier, at any given moment in time you can take your hand and push the skin on your other hand to change its form, its reality.

And at any given moment in time you can do the SAME with the kind of thoughts you CHOOSE to think, the kind of feelings you CHOOSE to focus on, and the kind of actions you CHOOSE to execute. And what I mean by “actions”, I also mean taking the actions of remaining stagnant in your life. Even these ARE actions that you choose to undergo.

Love yourself. Love WHO you are by being WHO you want to attract into your life. And love yourself every single day. Lead by example. Who do you want to manifest into your life? BE that person, yourself. It’s not too late for you. You CHOOSE at any moment. You CAN choose at any moment.

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After being single for 9 years I decided I was ready to call in and manifest the RIGHT kind of relationship I was TRULY desiring. I got SO TIRED of wobbling within my own mindset around struggling, being scared of getting hurt (again), and wondering WHY I hadn’t met my person yet.

I decided to use proven Law of Attraction methods AND experiment on myself with my own cognitive training techniques through the POWERFUL use of Mastering Manifasting journaling…and boom! It totally worked! Getting your mindset into the right frame of mind is HUGE in speeding up your ideal love relationship! This is where my journal workbook and my EXTRA exclusive training comes in!

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Have an amazing week ahead and remember…

Release Your Fear & Manifast: Manifest Faster!

Journal Girl Jaclyn