I Feel Guilty for Wanting to be in Alignment

I Feel Guilty for Wanting to be in Alignment


I’ve been crying, I’ve had anxiety, worry, anger, frustration, sadness, you name the negative feelings and I’ve felt them this week. I’ve been called things I don’t even want to repeat because I believe in equality, and I’m a huge fan of Martin Luther King Jr.’s philosophy.

I’m criticized because I say things like, “violence doesn’t solve violence.”

Or, “We don’t live in a ‘this or that’ world, we live in a ‘this AND that’ world. But, we cannot accept all our unique features that make up this beautiful planet.”

I felt shame and guilt for publishing my latest podcast episode earlier this week. While it was recorded around the second week of May discussing how to maintain your alignment during fearful and stressful times, a lot in the world has changed since then.

It went from solely worrying about the effects of the pandemic, to now worrying about it AND the inclusion and safety for ourselves and the people we love. The United States is in turmoil and I really don’t know what I can say or do to fix it. I am hurting and I’m scared for everyone. And yet, I am SO THANKFUL other countries in our amazing world are coming together to support love and equality for people of color.

I just want you to know I’m thinking about all of you and I hope you stay safe and healthy during COVID-19 and these challenging times. Always believe in yourself and the power that is within you. Let’s come together and support each other, please.

I will never back down for trying to promote peace and love for everyone.

You are amazing, never forget this.


Do You Need a Mindset Audit?

Do You Need a Mindset Audit?


When owning a business or climbing up your career’s ladder, you sometimes wonder what you are not doing that others are doing creating thoughts and feelings that seem you are not enough.

Let’s do a mindset audit for a moment:

a) Do you want to try really hard acting from a place of fear because you think you’re missing out on something?


b) Do you want to follow your soul’s compass and act from a place of ease and alignment?

When you try to fit into shapes others have created for themselves, or they have created with expectations for others, you’ll end up feeling unworthy and burned out. You can try it for a while, but it’s not true to who you are and your soul’s highest happiness (your compass).


The sparks of excitement that come over you when you have a desire or a new idea.

If you stay true to yourself, stay true to your soul’s nudges when taking manifesting action, the unwavering consistency of it is what emerges into your physical realm. It doesn’t matter what you’re doing, the Universe doesn’t care. It only reflects to you what you steadily believe to be possible.

If you’ve been trying to cram yourself into other people’s boxes these past few weeks (or months) , you feel like you’re trying so hard, and all of it is not working: no worries! You have permission to stop. Yes, right now.

And, you have permission to start acting by your soul’s compass (those nudges), because your belief of what can happen through positive alignment with the Universe is what plays out over time. If you believe bad things are going to happen, over time, these things will emerge into your physical space. Again, the Universe doesn’t play favorites, it only reflects to you.

Be Like Nike, Just Do It

I urge you to do your Mastering ManiFASTing journaling today by writing and finishing this sentence at least 10 times:

I choose to live by my soul’s compass and listen to my soul’s nudges because…

(finish the sentence with 3 of your top goals in your business/career/life and why it’s important to follow your soul’s compass and nudges)

You’ve got this!

XOXO Jaclyn

Your Hypocritical Spiritual Shifts

Your Hypocritical Spiritual Shifts

Spiritual Shifts

Hey Beautiful Soul!

I’m continuing to invite you on my spiritual journey with me. I’m about to get real and raw, and I’m scared because this means I don’t know what will happen in the future. But you know what, maybe this is okay? It’s learning to surrender, and then surrender, and surrender again, and again…

Your spiritual journey will often feel very hypocritical: as soon as you release and let go, your breakthrough comes to you.

I’ve had quite a bit of internal reflection over the past 2 weeks. I pride myself in showing transparency while on my spiritual journey, especially because I know life feels like a roller coaster ride.

Today it hit me because I realize I’m in a transition

During moments of internal reflection due to “no’s” you’re receiving, your true purpose is once again placed out in front of you, for you.

If I take away ALL the pomp and circumstance from my plate, what am I left with? My soul’s purpose.

If I take away ALL the fluff, ALL the success milestones, and ALL the money I’ve made thus far, what am I left with? My souls’ purpose.

Learn to embrace your “down” moments because in these moments you’ll find your most authentic self once again.


Your Passion Is Allowed to Transition

I’ve decided to make the EMPOWERING DECISION to embrace my transition because I’m tired of trying to “sell sell sell” because I want to keep up with the big leagues. Owning a business is supposed to be fun and full of passion. And…

You’re allowed to transition your passion at any moment in time that you decide.

How freeing is this? Instead of trying to run in the race in order to keep up with the big leagues, what if you just have fun playing on the playground?

What if you’re supposed to be different? And from there you make a huge impact in the world?

And you know what I’ve learned over this past year? That for me, being an advocate for all that’s good in the world is much more meaningful than to make a quick few thousands of dollars just so I can be at a “success” level others are currently at (note: this is me attempting to validate myself on an entrepreneurial level).

I’m thankful. I’m grateful. And I’m humble I have come to this realization. I want to inspire others to do good things in the world, not because you want to be rich with only money, but because you want to be rich in all ways of the world.

Abundance in ALL forms: money, love, happiness, and everything else in our lives because we so deserve it!


In Conclusion…My Hypocritical Shift Realization

After talking to a celebrity a few times over these past few weeks I realize my true mission, my true soul’s purpose, and I honestly don’t even care anymore if I “keep up with” the big leagues when it comes to financial gain.

My soul’s purpose has always been to help others live more fulfilling lives.

And this is what feels so wonderful for me, it’s what feels fun and gives me passion.

If you took away all the pomp and circumstance on your plate, what are you left with that is YOUR soul’s purpose? Do your Mastering Manifesting Journaling either onto a computer or with a pen onto paper, and let me know what you’ve realized. This is your blueprint for 2020, yeah! I’m excited just typing this out for you!

PS- Beginning Jan 1, 2020, Write into Reality Week happens in our Facebook family group! I invite you to join us, it’s totally FREE!

XOXO Jaclyn


My Manifesting Journal in Fortune Green & Aubre’s Beautiful Painting for Skylar! Photo Credit: The WarPaint Project

Need to Reboot Your Support System?

Need to Reboot Your Support System?


Sometimes during the holidays we get super stressed out because of extra holiday bills, unforeseen bills, spending time with different family personalities, societal and family expectations, must I go on? The holidays are supposed to be a time of “joyfulness” and “cheer”.

Disclosure Alert

The holidays are not easy for me. I’m just going to be flat out honest about my holiday situation each year. I have 2 pets and their vet bills are INSANE between the months of October-January. I’m talking $650+ each month on vet bills alone. Mix it with my regular monthly living expenses, plus my monthly and annual business expenses being due…

A few weeks ago one of my cousins decided to take her own life. While I was around her a lot as a child, it still hurts me because this is how I remember her: as a child. I was crying for a few days because of so many emotions that were hitting me all at once.

Inside each of us are children wanting to be loved.

Which brings me to the point of my message:

How are you doing given the hustle and bustle of the holiday season? Do you have a strong support system?

If not, I highly encourage you to EVALUATE YOUR PEER SUPPORT SYSTEM because the holidays are a tough time for a lot of people. When you have a positive support system through healthy friendships and relationships, it makes the holiday season better to get through each year.

Are You Too Hard On Yourself?

What we sometimes see on TV and in the movies about how we are supposed to feel each holiday season is not real life. But everyone just eats it up as if this is what we are expected to live up to during this time of the year.

I’m here to remind you that it’s perfectly okay to give yourself permission to give yourself a break. You’re allowed to do so. Keep placing one foot in front of the other because you are so worthy of being happy.

And if you need to reboot your peer support system, do it because it helps you so much more than you realize. I believe in you, Beautiful Soul!

XOXO Jaclyn

Soulful Secret Tip: Self-Alignment Checklist

Soulful Secret Tip: Self-Alignment Checklist


Life is like a roller coaster, there’s ups AND downs, including with your thoughts and emotions. One thing I do to help get my soul back into alignment whenever I have wobbly moments is to create a self-alignment checklist and I keep it in my wallet in my handbag for a quick grab.

I create my self-alignment checklist when I’m feeling IN alignment. But, I use the checklist when I need to get myself BACK INTO alignment.

For your Mastering ManiFASTing journaling (and to create your checklist), write out:

Right now I’m thinking… (literally write this out so when you’re thinking negative thoughts you can finish this sentence in the moment either by talking to yourself or writing it out)
Right now I’m feeling… (literally write this out so when you’re feeling panicked, stressed, scared, etc. you can finish this sentence in the moment either by talking to yourself or writing it out)
I acknowledge you and I now choose to release you because you are not serving my soul for my highest happiness.
I am now choosing, instead, to think… (finish this sentence right now with empowering thoughts you want to think, so when you’re in a negative state you can switch directions with your empowering intentions in that specific moment)
I am now choosing, instead, to feel… (finish this sentence right now with descriptions of feelings that you want to feel, so when negative thoughts strike you can switch directions BECAUSE of your empowering intentions through your chosen focus)

Self-Alignment Checklist: Mission Accomplished

Great job! This handy self-alignment checklist is a guide for you for anytime you feel wobbly while on your soul’s path of manifesting. Of course, you can always change your open-ended answers at any point in time. The beauty of this is you’re giving yourself permission to choose how you want to think and feel going forward.

Acknowledge the negative thought/feeling, allow it to pass through you, set your empowering intentions and go forth in that direction. You’ve got this!

See you soon, and remember to use your daily affirmations. Feel free to use one of mine below:

I am always attracting abundance to me,

XOXO Jaclyn

Are you ready to speed up all your manifestations into your physical realm?