Transparency: Why I Don’t Care About Selling, Why Bullying Should Stop, & Why I Love Honesty

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I have been feeling discouraged lately. I have been feeling off-kilter. I have been feeling like I’m about to make a HUGE transition with my business. I started Manifest It! as Journal Girl Jaclyn a year ago and I have made huge progress in my business, in my own mindset beliefs and life, and most importantly, in my soul-purpose of helping others live happy lives.

There are many spiritual leaders online. I’ve never been really one who likes to sell. I like to share my cognitive training and law of attraction methods that work for ME and share them with others because I know if my stubborn-self shifted, then ANYONE can shift as well! I want to HELP, so I do not charge an arm and a leg for my programs. It doesn’t mean I don’t believe in myself or my content. I totally believe in my content, I KNOW it works. I don’t feel good charging thousands of dollars for a program, how can I help the people who want and need some guidance this way? It just doesn’t feel in alignment for me.

Who I AM Versus What is Not in Alignment

Yes, I am not a millionaire. Yes, I am in debit investing in my business, and yes, I do manifest money from unexpected sources (thanks TO the Universe). And yes, there ARE a lot of bullies online and there ARE scammers online. I’m not pinpointing to anyone by my previous sentence, I am speaking in the general sense.

For the past year I have been thinking about shifting my business into a certain direction and just a few days ago I have decided to finally pull the trigger. So, I am taking on this direction and I feel SO AMAZINGLY GREAT about it! It feels right, it feels in alignment, it feels like it will continue to help people because it goes so well with my published books.

I love helping people and if my books and my content make me millions of dollars, then great. If my books and my content make me a few thousands of dollars, then great. If my books and my content make me feel ALIVE and at ONE with the Universe because I’m helping other souls then GREAT!

Money is just energy. Money is just particles in the Universe. Money is NOT my soul’s purpose-work. My soul’s purpose-work is to help others who REALLY WANT HELP through empowering cognitive Mastering Your Mindset training paired with proven law of attraction methods through one of the most POWERFUL tools of manifesting.

And, this is through the use of journaling/writing because it deeply enhances your visualizations, it deeply helps you uncover and release what is no longer serving your soul’s highest happiness in your life, and it deeply helps you to speed up receiving all your manifestations more rapidly.

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My Why, I Hate Bullies, & Being Honest

And this is WHY I do what I am doing. This is my ultimate WHY I am continuing to do by pushing forward and, like I usually state, “keep going.” And this is WHY I do not care if anyone buys my online programs. It’s Black Friday, it’s a great time to celebrate and share my content with others who truly want some help with their mindset beliefs and with manifesting. Black Friday is a great time to have a sale, why not?

I spend between 10-16 hours per online program creating my training and putting them up online. I charge because I work to help others. But, I do not feel right charging thousands of dollars because I DO want to help others who really WANT help. I am not defending myself, NO WAY. I know there are a lot of online bullies out there, and I know there are scammers, too. I am simply trying to be 100% transparent and 100% honest about who I am and what my soul’s purpose-work is while on this planet.

Thank you so much for reading my blog and my message. I hope you all had an amazing holiday and that you all have a wonderful weekend!

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The Truth Is Nonsense…Just Listen To Your Soul!

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The truth is nonsense! Just listen to your soul…and maybe have some cheesecake. What to do when your day is testing you and you feel the pressure from the others. The Universe loves you and you are STILL manifesting your dreams.

PS: also, you ARE a badass, so go be a badass and carpe diem!

You’ve got this!

Carpe Diem!

Journal Girl Jaclyn

You Have To Be Yourself First and Foremost

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Hey Sensational Soul!

I often get asked, “How do you sell so many books?” My answer is ALWAYS the same:

You Have To Be Yourself First & Foremost

Whether you are growing your own business, selling products, mentoring, teaching, coaching, finding your soulmate, interviewing for your dream job, losing weight, and anything and everything else…you have to be yourself first and foremost- ALWAYS!

Otherwise, you are not being 100% honest with…YOU. How does this equal TRUE happiness? You know the rule of karma? What goes around comes around. If you are not honest with yourself, it comes back to you. Law of attraction states “like attracts like”, so if you are dishonest with yourself, you’ll get more of dishonesty coming into your physical realm.

Do you just want “anything” to come your way? HELL NO! You want what is BEST FOR YOU! And what is BEST FOR YOUR HAPPINESS! Right??

Your Soul Vibe Attracts Your Soul Tribe

You don’t want to feel desperate because the Universe will bring MORE of the same: feelings of desperation. Also, you’ll attract the WRONG kind of souls who are not a match to you. You WANT your soul-based, soulmate souls to come into your life and STAY in your life. And if you are selling products, you WANT your soul-based souls to purchase from you, too. It creates a much bigger loyalty in the long-run because you are being honest with yourself in the process of selling to others.

And this is the truth. Even if you are manifesting some L-Bs (pounds) to fall off of you, my tip is to ALWAYS be honest with YOURSELF! Are you more likely to quit the sweets cold turkey? Or, are you more likely to introduce a healthier eating lifestyle little bits at a time? Either way is completely, 100% OKAY to do so as long as you are being honest with yourself.

Think Long-Term Results

Us homo sapiens are creatures of habit. The more we practice at something, the longer we stick to it. Besides, instant results don’t always guarantee CONCRETE results. Everything in life is temporary, the only constant is really change in itself. By being able to focus on your long-term results, and by being able to be 100% honest with yourself, you are able to handle life’s twists and turns much more easily because you are on a life-long soulful journey of authenticity. And I don’t know about you, but being authentic is MUCH MORE pleasing in life than not being authentic to ourselves!

It doesn’t mean your manifestations can’t come quickly- of course they CAN! I just mean you’re likely to STICK to YOUR long-term plan when you take steps each day to move towards your manifestations. In addition, by practicing at manifesting each and every day through your Mastering Your Mindset work, it gets easier over time and your brain accepts it as second-nature. In other words, your brain goes on auto-pilot in your habitual cognitive behaviors. This opens up the portal for your manifestations to come into your physical realm! YES!!!!

Marry & Stay Faithful To Your Soul

Stay true and honest to yourself and your soul’s truest needs because this is what you’re likely to STAY COMMITTED TO while vibrating your thoughts, feelings, and actions to SHOW the Universe what you are seriously wanting to come into your physical realm. Think of manifesting as a long-term marriage with your soul. Why would anyone want to BE and STAY in a marriage that isn’t happy?

Have faith in your soul and in the manifestation process: you either get EXACTLY what you want; or, something MUCH BETTER comes FOR YOU!

To thy own self be true” – William Shakespeare

Ol’ Billy Shakespeare has a point! Success and manifestations DO happen when you are honest and true to yourself. I’m rooting for you, Sensational Soul, you’ve totally got this!

Carpe Diem!

Journal Girl Jaclyn

PS- I’m just about ready to start editing my second book! I’m so excited to help so many souls around the world manifest their soulmate/twin flame and ideal relationship!

But first, have you nabbed my hugely selling book yet?

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You Choose: Fossil Or Diamond

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You get that spark of inspiration.

You wait a couple of seconds and the doubt starts to set in.

You then think about all the reason why it WON’T work.

You are now feeling emotions of dread, slight fear, lack of confidence, feeling like you are not good enough.

This is your moment to CHOOSE. You GET a choice: do you want to FOCUS on these thoughts and feelings? Or, do you want to feel GOOD about your mental inspirational download? And EACH time do you want to feel GOOD about your mental inspirational download each time it comes?

How do you WANT to feel? What does your soul TRULY want? What is aching to get out within you?

The Universe is responding to what you FOCUS on. As humans we always have ups and downs- and this is perfectly okay! Let yourself think, acknowledge it; but, you get to CHOOSE what you want to focus on. Let your limiting thoughts pass through you. Let your thoughts of lack move on, don’t cling to them. You get a choice.

You get to choose. You DO get to choose. State the opposite of whatever limiting thoughts you are feeling. State the opposite as many times as needed- you CAN train your mindset. You CAN train yourself to start thinking and feeling FROM your soul’s truest feelings and emotions.

HOW DO YOU & YOUR SOUL TRULY WANT TO FEEL!? 

Your soul communicates to the Universe. Your mindset, your soul, and the Universe work with each other SIMULTANEOUSLY. And you ARE in control of YOUR mindset, you ARE in control of YOUR soul, and the Universe responds TO you. You want MORE blessings to come into your life? Start FEELING into your blessings you have NOW. You want more success to come into your life? Start doing things that feel good to you NOW.

Step by step, day after day, keep going. Let yourself shine, let your soul FREE.

One of the best ways to anchor INTO your soul the mindset your soul TRULY wants, ALL the things you desire into your life, and to speed UP your manifestations is to perform consistent mindset journaling- what I call Mastering Your Mindset journaling.

Like attracts like. The Universe is YOUR oyster. You’ve got this. Love yourself. Be gentle with yourself. And go kick some spiritual ass, you Master Manifestor you!

Carpe Diem!

Journal Girl Jaclyn

Someone Saved My Life Tonight

IMG_20171230_191841_151This blog post may not be the best article you read, nor may it be one that will stay within your memory after today; but, I must be candid for a few minutes.

Depression is a serious disease. I should know because without my medication I would be in it all over again. My entire business is around helping other souls with their mindset and their mindset beliefs. My purpose and message to the Universe is to help others manifest whatever it is they truly desire into their lives. My focus and passion is to help any and every soul I can help to live in true, authentic happiness. And today I sort of feel like a fraud after the news of Anthony Bourdain. He was a rare gem in this world, not one to shy away from being 100% honest, even if it made you cringe a little sometimes. I feel defeated in an odd way because I can understand how he must have been feeling. Here I am telling souls day after day that they can successfully shift their mindset, and maybe people who follow me never even knew what I was going through, myself.

 

However, I am proof that you CAN get better. 9 years ago I tried to take my own life. I remember that night so clearly. I remember bawling in the fetal position on the bathroom floor of my apartment for hours. I remember my inner demons telling me it “can’t get better”. I remember taking a massive amount of prescription pills and trying to slit my wrists to the music of Elton John’s “Someone Saved My Life Tonight”. Little did I know that song was going to play a more pivotal role leading to my own survival.

 

I was in a really bad relationship with a narcissist for about 2 years. I am an empath, meaning I absorb a lot of people’s energies around me. No matter how hard I try to surround myself with a clear, protective bubble, people’s energies can really soak into me. I remember how my attempt at suicide didn’t work, I felt awful the next day. I was so far down the depression hole at the time that I didn’t feel awful out of guilt- no way. I was so far “gone”. I felt awful because the night before I had sent my “goodbye” emails and there I was still (undeservingly ) breathing the next day. I remember the narcissist telling me, “you only did this to get attention”, when in actuality I did it because I was trying to escape from him, from life, from myself.

 

So why didn’t it work 9 years ago when I attempted? I realized a few months later everything really does happen for a reason. I truly believe I had to hit “rock bottom” in order to understand what I was actually going through at 26 years old. At the time, when I was in my relationship with the narcissist, I didn’t even know what a “narcissist” was until after I attempted to end it all and shortly after decided to go to cognitive therapy. If I had known that my inner demons were so powerfully volatile, and that there IS actually a light at the end of the tunnel, I may not have tried to so hard to say “goodbye” on that strange night. If I had known and understood the complexities of the brain and outside influences (such as toxic relationships with a narcissist), I may not have had such a strong urge to end it all.

I truly believe what I went through prepared me for what I am now doing 9 years later at 35 years old: teaching other souls in this world to KEEP GOING. Everything stems from our mindset. The mind can be so restless, but it doesn’t have to control you. And while depression feels 1000% real within ourselves, there truly IS another direction we can start mentally moving towards in order to see the light at the end of the tunnel. Leaving our earth is not the ONLY option. It’s not easy, but it’s definitely doable.

If you or anyone you know is suffering from depression, I strongly urge going to cognitive therapy. This type of therapy is actually what saved my life the next night, and every night since then until I was fully healed. While I do not hold a PhD in psychology, I do what I can as a mentor to help people shift their mindset to the best of their abilities. It is time to be OPEN and HONEST about depression and mental illness. There is NOTHING wrong with having a mental illness. And it does NOT have to control you and your life. You CAN live in authentic happiness with the proper guidance and support system surrounding you. And it can start today, right now.

 

Do not give up. Keep going. You are NOT alone. It is perfectly OKAY to seek help. And it is perfectly OKAY to be honest and REAL in this world. Each and every single one of us is a faceted gem that help to shape this world we live in. And you are such a rarity in this Universe. You ARE needed here, with us.

 

Warmest Love,

Journal Girl Jaclyn

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