Learning How to Attract Your Soul-Vibe Tribe

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Hey Sensational Soul!

Every week I like to give FREE Mastering Your Mindset training to help you tune into your thought patterns and how they are communicating to both your soul’s core and to the Universe. This week’s training is aimed at attracting the kind of friendships you really desire into your life. However, this can also be used for attracting ANYONE and EVERYONE who vibes with your soul because your soul’s vibe attracts your soul’s tribe. So, let’s get started!

Journal Out the Following:

1) Answer this sentence stem at least 10 times: the character traits I admire are…

2) Can I answer at least 3 people in my life who exemplify the above character traits? If yes, who are they and what traits do they embody? If not, are there any book or movie characters you can think of who embody these traits?

3) Finish this sentence stem 5 times: the character traits I admire in myself are…because…

4) Between prompts #1, #2, and #3, are there any commonalities that you notice? For example, maybe both #1 and #3 are “funny”. Or, maybe both #2 and #3 are “adventurous” and “energetic”, usually energetic people like to do adventurous things.

5) Looking over the commonalities between prompts #1, #2, and #3, how do you think these types would spend their free time? For example, a “funny” person might like to go to comedy clubs or go to funny movies. “Exciting” and “adventurous” people might like to go indoor sky-diving or off-trail bike riding. Brainstorm hobbies of the character traits you admire. There is no right or wrong answer to this, just let whatever comes to mind out onto paper or your computer document.

6) Look over the ideas you came up with for #5, are you partaking in these kinds of hobbies, yourself? Why or why not?

7) If you answered “yes” to #6, what might be keeping you from meeting others who share similar hobbies, even though you partake in them (what are you afraid of)? If you answered “no” to #6, what are you afraid of when it comes to partaking in this hobby, yourself?

8) Why do YOU think you are not meeting the type of friends you long to have in your life?

9) Now that you have confronted what you are afraid of with regards to meeting your soul’s tribe, answer this question: what is the worst that could happen if you took a chance on meeting new people in general?

10) Now that you have confronted what you are afraid of with regards to meeting your soul’s tribe, answer this question: what is the best that could happen if you took a chance on meeting new people in general?

11) Free-flow it for the next 2-3 minutes by finishing this sentence stem: I am now CHOOSING to COMMIT to being open to receiving my soul-tribe by…

12) Have you joined Facebook groups, clubs, or meetup.com groups around your hobbies and interests? Just an idea…

Be Open & Allow For It

Be OPEN to meeting new people. I know, I’m an introvert. I do understand that it can be scary at times. But I just remember that when I join a Facebook group or a club it’s because I love the hobby (itself).

So, I don’t really think about the people because I don’t want to overwhelm myself all at once. I focus on the hobby and the interest, and then people come into my sphere.

Through time by being 100% MYSELF, my soul’s vibe assembles my soul-tribe…and the others just fall away. It takes time, commitment to your end-results, and faith that you ARE meeting your soul-tribe. It’s totally happening for you! Have a wonderful weekend!

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I Just Want to Scream! And NOT in the Good Way

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It feels like lava is in my esophagus and it’s slowly rising into my mouth. Yet, I keep calm despite the fact that lately there is a lot of funk in the air, and many people are being extremely rude towards me and to others.

Are you the type of person who bottles up your emotions inside of you? And then you burst all at once?

Or, are you the type to have outbursts in the exact moment of something influencing your mood?

Do you take your anger and frustrations out on OTHERS? Or, do you tend to become angry and frustrated with YOURSELF?

Do you go straight to the source when you are angry or frustrated to hash it out? Or, do you go to others and vent about them, instead?

I Have a Secret

I have a tendency to bottle up my negative emotions for fear of “rocking the boat.” I sometimes bottle up my positive ones, too, for fear of showing any kind of attachment.

I have more to disclose: I take out my anger and frustrations on myself. I try to figure out what I did wrong. And sometimes I vent to people who are close to me (but not at them) BECAUSE I’m trying to figure out what the hell just happened.

We All Have Our Moments of Feeling Like A Ticking Time-Bomb

I ask these questions because I find they are important in getting to know yourself in how you operate under pressure. Furthermore, it helps you to be able to be more AWARE of your emotional reactions vs. more thought-provoking responses.

While we can’t always adjust our emotional temperature 24/7, there are some things to keep in mind and practice while performing your Mastering Your Mindset journaling to BE more aware and take your power back within yourself.

So Ask Yourself While Journaling Out The Following:

1) Is bottling up my current emotions/unleashing my current emotions through hasty reactions going to SOLVE/HELP the current situation? State your case: why or why not?

2) Is bottling up my current emotions/unleashing my current emotions through hasty reactions going to HELP my relationships with others in my work life and/or personal life? State your case: why or why not?

3) When I think of my current challenge that is influencing my negative emotions, what am I TRULY afraid of about it? WHY am I afraid of this outcome?

4) What could I be thinking and doing in order to SHIFT from these emotionally-charged feelings of frustrations or anger so that I no longer feel like I am out of control of myself and my life?

Remember

Everything IS temporary. What you are currently undergoing right now is not going to be the same a month, 3 months, 6 months, or even a year from now. And what is the best way to take your power back within your soul and put yourself back into the driver’s seat? Gain KNOWLEDGE around your thoughts/feelings of WHY you are thinking/feeling this way. In addition, Google some articles to read to further understand that you are NOT alone in your feelings. Lastly, you CAN and you WILL get through this.

Whether or not you take your frustrations or anger out on others, or you bottle them up inside and explode all at once, you ARE ultimately responsible for YOUR responses. We all have our emotionally-charged moments, but we always have a CHOICE in how we want to go forward with the situation at hand. And while it can be challenging to remember during these emotionally-charged moments, practice makes for progression in empowering yourself for WHEN you have these charged moments.

When you practice at thinking and feeling how you TRULY want to think and feel, it gets easier and the outside influences won’t affect you the way they used to affect you BECAUSE you are in the driver’s seat of your soul and of your mindset. Everything is relative and nothing is permanent in this Universe (except change, change is always constant).

Have a great day!

Change Your Mindset & You Change Your Life,

Journal Girl Jaclyn

Another AMAZING Energy-Filled Particle Manifestation Lesson!

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And How “Ego” Is Perception (Just Like Everything Else In Life)

Now, before you start jumping on my back about the concept of “ego”, first hear me out:

Everything in life is perception, meaning everything within this Universe is a result from energy being influenced, SHAPED, by the force of…well, energy. Everything IS energy because elements ARE energy and energy IS made up of elements. Energy = energy, and it’s shaped by itself through an EXCHANGE of force.

Therefore, we can conclude that due to energy being influenced and shaped by energy, it’s all relative. How so? Think of it this way:

If you are building your own home, you are choosing the material you want to use to build your home such as brick vs. wood, concrete vs. wood, quartz vs. granite, etc. And the material you choose to use is made up of atoms within the Universe. Furthermore, atoms contain matter because all matter is made up OF atoms. And what do atoms contain? Energy. And what does energy contain? Protons, electrons, and neutrons. Man, this takes me back to my school days…

 

Your home that you are building was once a vision within your mind, and your mind contains your brain. And your brain IS energy because it contains matter made up of ATOMS of energy.

Your physical home BECOMES what you SEE because you believe what you envisioned in your mind to be able to be deemed as “true” within your physical realm. Remember, our eyes are our windows, not are actual sight. What we see stems from our brain/our mind through neural signals of energy made up of…ATOMS. Have I lost you yet? I hope not!

Furthermore, your physical home BECOMES your home BECAUSE you made the DECISION and the CHOICE to deem it as “true” and you took inspired actions to SHOW the Universe what you wanted for your home. You made many decisions and choices and you kept taking inspirational actions to help propel you along in completing the building of your physical house.

And then your house IS physically shaped how you deemed it to be from your vision before anything took shape with the energy of materials that were used to complete your soul’s calling for your home.

You literally envisioned it, made choices and decisions to follow your vision with inspirational actions, meaning you SHOWED the Universe what you desire to be as IS in your physical realm, and you kept going and BAM! Your manifestation sped up because you DEEMED your vision as true within the physical realm.

Whoa! Mind-blowing when you get into the specifics of energy and elemental particles, but I don’t want to confuse anyone so I chose this analogy to try and explain all of this. Nonetheless, it’s all really freaking AMAZING.

Our earth, our solar system, our galaxy…it’s all made up of matter made up of ATOMS (energy).

 

Ego

Lately souls have been stating to me that my wants and desires are “ego”-based in how I approach my beliefs that you CAN train your mindset. Again, no, you can’t control forming a thought; however, you CAN make a DECISION with regards to how you CHOOSE to focus on the thought.

And how you choose to focus on thought is an influence of neural signals either in powerful expansion of focus that you CHOOSE to entertain; or, it’s a decision that you CHOOSE not to give powerful expansion of focus, so you ALLOW the energetic thought to pass through you. Remember, everything is energy, including our own bodies, so the thought passes through our energetic particles bouncing around so fast that our bodies APPEAR to be a solid state of mass.

Note: APPEAR, meaning seeming to…not actual.

Are you still with me? I hope so!

This brings me to my point about the concept of “ego”. Ego is, just like anything else, what YOU CHOOSE to deem it to be. I’m not saying ego is a good thing and I’m not saying ego is a bad thing. All I’m saying is that when people tend to put labels on things (example: ego), they tend to stereotype, pigeon-hole, and even put an energy spin on the belief of it.

So why am I bringing all of this up? Because the power lies WITHIN your shell that we call a body. The power IS your energy. YOUR power IS YOU. So what if someone says, “that’s ego-based”…okay. This does NOT mean you are less of a person because you have life goals, you have chosen to change your standards, and you made the decision to have healthy boundaries in your life. And yes, life goals, standards, and healthy boundaries can be considered whatever you want them to be considered (a positive or a negative concept).

IT DOESN’T FUCKING MATTER WHAT ANYONE THINKS OF YOU. PERIOD. THE END. FINALE.

If you want your dream home, what are you waiting for?

If you want your dream career, what are you waiting for?

If you want your hot body, what are you waiting for?

If you want your soulmate/twin flame best friend, what are you waiting for?

If you want your financial situation to change, what are you waiting for?

If you want to live your life however you want to live it, WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR?

I know, you are waiting for other fearful souls to give you permission to do so when really they, themselves, are too scared to give themselves permission to live a happy life. So labels are made, stereo-types are made, and things are pigeon-holed through influences of…energy.

It’s all an exchange of energy. What do you allow yourself to receive through what you CHOOSE to believe as true?

What do you allow yourself to believe as true given the influences of outside energy (others)?

How do you allow yourself to RESPOND to outside energy (others) from your OWN energy (your mindset beliefs)?

Are you still reading this!?

It’s time to take back your own power! It’s time to take back your own power because you had made a decision at one point to give it away. However, you do not NEED to give it away any longer. It’s totally up to you, though. You get the choice in how you want to live your life. Always.

Guess what? I just had an AMAZING energy-filled particle manifestation! YES! For the past few months I have been searching and searching for the cover image I want for my upcoming book about manifesting your ideal relationship.

I found an image that I really loved, but it was licensed and used as an album cover for some European musical group. Heart, broken. Then I found another image that I loved, it, too was licensed for a book in Europe. I then had 2 more images to choose from that I found at this point.

And I really loved them both. It was so frustrating because despite the fact that I loved them both, it just didn’t feel RIGHT. You know, meant to be, intuitively in alignment with ease and flow.

So after a few months of staring at the 2 images I loved and accepted to choose one for my book cover image, I was, in the meantime, trying my best to get over the initial album cover image I really fucking fell in absolute love with beyond any other image I had seen since then. And that stupid image kept popping up in my search results when I was trying to tackle “soulmate/twin flame/cosmic/Universe/galaxy love”. It was like the heartbreak of not being able to use this image was toying with me!

But little did I know it was testing me to see how much I still wanted it…

A couple of weeks ago I just decided: it is what it is, it’s whatever it is and whatever is meant to be will be for my book cover. I am just going to go with the flow and surrender to the Universe. It’s time I quit trying to control the outcome of this. I’ll go with what feels the most aligned to me with good feelings in the moment that I am to make my choice to the layout editor.

Yesterday I typed in “soulmate connection” and followed it up with various words such as “blue” and “kiss” and whatever else I used. After about 20 minutes of just searching FOR FUN (because I had already decided it’s whatever the Universe blesses me with at this point), I came across a VERY SIMILAR image to the original album image I deeply fell in love with…wait, WHAT!? Is this for real? AND it’s the color of my book covers?

((Frantically searches for the artist’s contact information…frantically emails all platform channels to HOPEFULLY hear back from this artist. It looks like they may not post much on social medias…I don’t see a website for them…oh geez, well it IS what it is. The Universe IS taking care of this.))

I got a response in LESS THAN 24 hours- and I’m allowed to use it!!! This works out SO MUCH BETTER than I could have imagined! The moments that I gave up, gave in, and relinquished control to my outcome…BAM! Something even BETTER comes along to me, FOR me, FOR my book! And it matches my back cover image SO FUCKING WELL!

Note: The featured image is the licensed album cover image; however, my blessed energy-filled manifestation of my actual book cover image is similar, and you will see it SOON when I publish my book in a couple of months!

The Moral to This Story

Everything is perception because energy is influenced by energy. Therefore, you get what you CHOOSE to deem as true. You ARE worthy and allowed to live your life in happiness, living it by your SOUL’s calling, how you CHOOSE to live it. You always get a choice to remain or to level the fuck up.

It doesn’t matter what others think about you, say to you, and/or believe to be true about anything in this world. It only matters what YOU think about you, say to YOURSELF, and believe what you WANT to deem as true for YOUR life. Most souls are too scared to pull the trigger of being happy in their own lives. Why are you still giving away your power?? It’s time to level the fuck up.

And when you relax, surrender, and go with the flow of feeling GOOD rather than stressed, anxious, and wanting to control the outcome of things in life, your manifestations come flooding into your physical realm SO FUCKING FAST and most of the time even BETTER than you could imagine!

It’s a practice, a journey, a learning process that we all learn to master because we ARE meant to discover our SOUL purpose in this world. Besides, life would be so incredibly boring if we didn’t have anything to expand and grow from as souls while being on this earth. Change is good. Growth is good. Self-love and self-respect is good. Healthy standards and healthy boundaries are good. And “ego”? Well, it’s all relative energy.

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Change Your Mindset & You Change Your Life, 

Journal Girl Jaclyn

My Story Was Featured On The Secret’s Website

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So, I did not realize why or how, but I knew this past week my articles on Medium and my blog posts were having a massive influx of reads and views, and I’m talking by the thousands. I couldn’t figure out the surge, but then I realized it:

A year ago I submitted my story to The Secret, you know, that massively huge best-selling book by the beautiful, Rhonda Byrne. I submitted it last year and completely forgot about it. I read the book last year in 3 days, I even photocopied some of it for a physicist, I was trying to turn his mindset around into a more positive state at this time. But I completely forgot I had submitted my story to the site.

I kept getting emails these past few days…but now I get it: my story was featured on The Secret’s website this week!

My Point Is

So even when you don’t really “see” the blessings, they are still coming to you and they are still in existence. It took me a few days for me to realize and SEE what was going on, but that doesn’t mean the blessings weren’t happening altogether. So keep going, sensational soul! You’ve got this!

Unleash your soul, unleash your freedom

Journal Girl Jaclyn

It’s Time to Shock Your Mindset Beliefs

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Hey Sensational Soul!

Are you feeling stagnant and stuck right now in manifesting your dreams?

Here are some affirmations to help you SHOCK your stubborn mindset beliefs and TRANSFORM them into aligning yourself WITH the Universe.

Remember, your soul, your mindset, and the Universe work TOGETHER simultaneously. Set your alarm 3-4 times per day to help you to train your mindset from a limiting existence into a soul-aligned, abundant state. With practice, it becomes second-nature and your brain goes on auto-pilot.

And then BAM! Your manifestations start emerging into your physical realm.

Try These Out For Size:

– It’s so much FUN to…!

– I easily…!

– In everything I do I always make the right decision FOR me!

– I am always successful!

– Whenever I…success follows me in total ease and alignment!

– I can relax and have fun with…because the Universe is ALWAYS supporting me!

– I now give myself permission to…in total ease!

– I am in complete flow with the Universe each time I…

– I am so thankful the Universe is supporting me 24/7!

– Whenever I think about…I follow up with taking inspired actions because I fully TRUST and BELIEVE everything always works out FOR me!

– Success is inevitable FOR me!

– My manifestation of…is on its way to me VERY SOON!

– It is so easy to be in complete flow whenever I…

– I am ALWAYS taken care of by the Universe.

– Each time I make a decision, I accomplish my goal!

– I am deeply loved by the Universe.

– I am completely worthy to receive…in ease and in flow because I am a child of the Universe.

– I AM…

Practice makes for progression and progression brings the manifestation. The more you practice at being AWARE of your mindset and TRAIN it with positive thoughts, positive affirmations, and really journal them with CONVICTION, your mindset starts to SHIFT.

Think learning the lyrics to a new song or learning how to complete a task at work on the computer. You can do this! Keep going!

Carpe Diem!

Journal Girl Jaclyn

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